We Remember
KRASSEY, Nicholas Neil
May 12, 1933 — August 25, 2026
The world feels a little heavier without the laughter, kindness, and generosity of Nicholas “Neil” Krassey, who touched countless lives throughout his 93 years.
Nicholas was born to John and Malanka Krasiy on May 12, 1933, on the family farm in Ethelbert, Manitoba. The second oldest of seven children, Dad’s stories of life on the farm were filled with hard work and challenges but also good times and togetherness. The child of Ukrainian immigrants who chose Canada as their adopted home, he was always proud to be Canadian.
Eager to see more of the country, he left Ethelbert at age 17, briefly living in Ontario before eventually making his way west to British Columbia, where he would start a family and spend the rest of his life.
Dad rarely spoke about those early years away from Manitoba, often downplaying the adventures he must have had and focusing instead on the present. In BC, Nicholas became known as Neil, legally changing his name in 1957 and beginning a career with BC Tel. His work at the telephone company brought lifelong friendships, opportunities to travel to remote areas of the province and eventually led him to Donna, the daughter of his supervisor in Dawson Creek.
Neil and Donna married and remained in the Peace region for a few years, raising their young children, Cindy and Sean, before an opportunity to move to Vancouver Island arose. Dad had always loved the idea of living on “the Island,” and in 1968, his dream came true. The family of four packed up and moved to Courtenay, where they welcomed a third child, Lannea, in 1971.
In Courtenay, Dad was able to combine his two loves—family and sports. He volunteered as a director with the Courtenay Recreation Association (CRA) and held local leadership positions with minor hockey and baseball. Together, Mom and Dad spent years cheering on their kids’ endeavours, driving to gymnastics and dance competitions, hockey, baseball and volleyball games, up and down ski mountains, across provinces and down to the States to support their kids’ activities. They gave so much of their time and gained a loyal friend group in the process.
Dad spent the remainder of his career in Courtenay with BC Tel, retiring in May 1993 after 36 years of service. He was deeply proud of his career and wore his most prized possession, his BC Tel watch, on his wrist until his very last day.
After two decades together, Mom and Dad divorced amicably. They remained friendly, attending weddings, graduations, and other family celebrations together. Family meant everything to Dad. In retirement, he spent his time travelling to visit loved ones, taking gambling trips “down south,” volunteering with the Telephone Pioneers and installing Lifeline systems for seniors in Courtenay and Penticton.
With all three of his children living off the Island, Dad eventually moved to BC’s Okanagan region, first to Penticton and later to Kelowna. Over time, he stepped away from his volunteer work and embraced a quieter pace of life, enjoying coffee with friends and cheering on his favourite sports teams.
Dad spent his final months at Spring Valley Care Centre and passed away peacefully on August 25, 2026. He will be remembered for his wonderful spirit, kind heart and easygoing nature. His love of family and the connections he built throughout his life are part of the legacy he leaves behind.
Dad is lovingly remembered by his children: Cindy (Rob) of Morinville, AB, Sean of North Vancouver, BC, and Lannea (Steve) of Kelowna, BC; his grandchildren, Jordan (Sarah), Michael, Sheneece, Alyssa, Lily, and Declan; and his great-grandson, Damian. He is also survived by his sisters, Sylvia Yarema, Jean Bach and Mary (Mike) Hordeski; along with many extended family members and friends.
He was predeceased by his parents, John and Malanka Krasiy; brothers, Morris and Michael Krassey, sister, Anne Deleau; and his daughter-in-law, Leanne Krassey.
A special thank you to Dr. Bobyn and the staff of Spring Valley Care Centre, for the compassionate care they provided throughout his later months.
At Dad’s request, there will be no service.
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Dear Krassey Family, my sincerest condolences for your loss. Neil will forever be in your memories. As my former brother in law, will always remember his presence, and cherish his sense of family.. Your brothers are waiting for you ❤️
Heartfelt condolences for your loss. Neil was one of the good ones, see you down the road.
Uncle Neil is going to greatly missed. Whenever we came through the town that he was living in at the time he was always eager to show up for a hockey tournament, holiday or just a quick visit passing through. We would generally meet for a meal at one of his favourite places to go, Denny’s!! We would reminisce about past hunting trips or just what was going on with the families. Uncle Neil never missed a chance to catch up. Some of my fondest memories as a child were spending summers with him and family in Courtney.. Condolences to Cindy, Sean, Lannea and their families. Those that have ever known him know we have lost a great person this week
We send our love & hugs to to the family…he was an important part our lives…we always enjoyed visiting with him…he was a very special person…💔🙏💔🙏
Sorry to hear of Uncle Neil’s passing. I either enjoyed his many visits at the house in Edmonton or on my many visits to Vancouver Island where he’d drive to Victoria to see me. My true heartfelt condolences to everyone. Till we visit again on the other side, from nephew Robert.
Sincerest Condolences to the Family.
My Dad Raymond McCabe, worked with Neil mid 80s in Comox – Courtenay. (BCTel)
He often spoke about the fun time working with Neil here in Comox.
My Dad passed away this past April. They both started work with BCTel in 1957. Sorry for your loss.
Heather McCabe
My dearest brother Neil:
You have earned your rest and peace, after a full active life, with your family and friends along the way. Thank you for the wonderful memories you leave with all of us. Great holidays spent with you travelling all over your beloved Vancouver Island in your little red truck. Robert and I always had such a great time, plus some scary moments, like driving on a narrow pier to the ocean. Neil, you lived a great wonderful life. You always said: if I knew I’d live this long, I would’ve taken better care of myself. Well, you did live this long (93) and you took good care of yourself. Rejoice with God and your loved ones.
Rest in peace my dear brother. As always, love and prayers, Jean.
I knew Neil when your family lived on 2nd Street in Courtenay. We lived on 1st Street, and when I first met Neil my impression was, I like this guy. Easy going and no BS. We shared home brew beer recipes, but mine were better, Neil agreed. Neil, Donna, my wife Marcy and I curled together one season, I can’t remember why just the one season. Neil also bowled with Laurie and Dave Baker, Marcy and Me. We won Thursday night mixed with many trophies. Those and the many visits we had are fond memories.
Oh, one last thought. If I recall In sold a black 1965 dodge 4 door sedan to Lannea. If it had a three-on-the-tree transmission, well that would be the car Marcy learned to drive standard on.
My condolences
Cheers, Bob Weston
I lived in the same strata complex as Neil on Back Road in Courtenay. We served on the strata council together. He was kind, capable and a great neighbor. I’ve attached an old photo of Neil and another strata member fixing the fence.
I extend my condolences.
Neil was our next door neighbor for several years in the Panorama Gardens Condos in Courtenay, BC. He was really nice man and always ready to help any time it was needed. Truly a good neighbour! We were sorry to see him go when he moved on to Penticton, but he came back to visit a few times and we always enjoyed his visit. We are so sorry to hear of his passing and we offer our heartfelt condolences to all his family and friends…