We Remember
BULAI, Judy Ann Alice (nee Hingtgen)
November 4, 1945 — August 2, 2020
It is with great sadness to announce the passing of Judy Bulai at Kelowna General Hospital on August 2, 2020, at the age of 74.
Judy filled our lives with her charm and dry sense of humor. Judy’s sudden passing is profoundly mourned by her daughter Angela Bulai of Kelowna, BC; and her son and his family Terry Bulai (Tina) of Lumsden, SK and his children Tyler Bulai (Ehrn) of Warman, SK and Tristyn Evans (Pat) of Craven, SK; her great-grandchildren Daxon Bulai and Brynlee Bulai of Warman, SK, and Jordyn Evans and Nova Evans of Craven, SK. Judy is also survived by her brother Charlie Hingtgen (Lola) of Saskatoon, SK; her sister Joan Procure (Harry) of Stonewall, MB; sister-in-law Doris Hale (Fred) of Humbolt, SK; and many cherished and loved nieces and nephews and cousins. Judy was predeceased by her loving husband Edward Bulai; and her father Leonard Hingtgen and mother Jean Hingtgen.
Judy was born in 1945 in Ogema, SK to Leonard and Jean Hingtgen. She was the youngest child born who worked to help maintain the family’s grocery store in Dahinda, SK. Judy married the most outgoing, handsome, and adventurous Edward Bulai, in Regina, SK in 1963.
Judy and Eddie settled in Truax, SK for a few years then built a house and moved to Regina, SK. After embracing “city life”, Judy and Eddie decided to move to a farm in the district of Lumsden, SK.
Judy and Eddie worked very hard long years commuting from their farm in Truax and the farm in Lumsden. Judy was always the stoic, strong, incredible, superwoman who could cook a meal (for supper), combine a wheat field, hang the laundry on the line, and tend to the garden all with a positive attitude.
Judy and Eddie were fortunate to purchase a condo in the Waikiki Banyan on Oahu, Hawaii in 1977 with their children. Many winter months, escaping the cold Saskatchewan weather, were spent embracing the Hawaiian Island life. Judy’s favourite flower is the pink Hibiscus and her favorite day is Aloha Friday!!! Judy’s favorite song was “Somewhere Over the Rainbow” sung by Israel Kamakawio’ole while sitting on the patio of the Moana Surfrider in Hawaii enjoying a glass of wine.
Judy and Eddie decided to move from Saskatchewan to Kelowna, BC in the 1990s. Judy and her daughter opened a hair salon on Bernard Avenue, beside Woolworths at the time. Judy retired from the Bernard Ave salon, but never content to sit idle she opened Avita’s Salon and Spa on Harvey Ave. She proudly managed the front desk where she greeted clients and would share a joke that she had just read from the Reader Digest. In August 2009, Judy suffered the loss of Eddie, her beloved husband of 46 years. Though heartbroken, she spent many years in Bucerias Mexico with family and friends. She stayed active by playing golf and always looked forward to ladies night with her golf gals at Michaelbrook.
In 2015, Judy found companionship with Carmen Moerike from Ogema, SK. Judy and Carmen had the opportunity to travel which brought them great happiness on their many adventures to Europe, Mexico, and Texas.
She enjoyed many meat-draws at the Elks Lodge, where she was member, laughing and sharing stories with her Elk brothers and sisters. Judy was also a long-standing member of the Kelowna Yacht club and she belonged to the First United Church.
Judy lived life her way and will be dearly missed by her family and many friends.
As Judy was loved and admired by so many, a celebration of her extraordinary life will be held at a later date, when gathering in person is again possible.
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My deepest condolences to all of Judy’s family. She was a wonderful person.. I hope Your happy memories will bring comfort at this sad time.
My deepest condolences to all of Judy’s family. I hope your happy memories will bring comfort at this sad time.
Karen Copp (Cojocar)
Dear Angela and family
Bill and I send our sincere condolences on the loss of your dear Mom. We know how close you were and will surely miss her. May your happy memories of the good times help at this sad time. Losing a parent is one of life’s hardest times to endure. Hugs from us both.
Bill and Judy MacKenzie
Angela, I was so terribly sad to hear about Judy passing away. She was a lovely lady and always had a smile on her face. Sending you much love and hugs at this very difficult time..
Angela, we are so saddened to hear of Judy’s passing.. We have many fond memories of her and that unique sense of humour.. She will be missed, and we know that no one will miss her more than you.. Our heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
Angela and family I am so sorry to read of your mother’s passing! May your memories sustain you through this time of sadness. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Linda Gilmour
So sorry for the loss of your Mom our thought and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. Please take care. Love Dwayne and Gayle
Mama J was a very special friend….and Angela, Judy, Doug and I spent many great times together….Heaven gained an Angel. We will miss our times together,…..Angela you do not walk this grief journey alone and let the wonderful memories give you comfort….much love and blessings ahead🙏🏻🙌🏻🤗😍🌺🎶
So very sorry for your loss! I was so thankful to reconnect with Judy when we went on that river cruise from Romania 5 years ago. Many fond memories. I hope you will be comforted at this time with the many memories you made together. Hugs, love and prayers.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time.. God bless and keep you in his loving arms.
Dear Angela and family, I’m so, so sorry to hear of the passing of your Mom. Know that you’re in our thoughts and prayers through this difficult time. With love, Frances Chiasson & family
Angela, I was so sorry to hear about your Mom. I will always remember how you and your Mom contributed to the New Year’s Day Dinner at First United with such generosity and good will. My thoughts are with you at this sad time.
Sincerely, Shirley
So sorry to hear of this. I’ve known Carmen for many years and met Judy through him in Mexico a few years ago. She was a delightful lady, and treated me and my friend like she’d known us for every. Very warm and hospitable. RIP Judy and God bless her loved ones and everyone who knew her.
Angela we are so sorry to hear of your moms passing our thought and prayers are with you she was a very special lady