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CASCANETTE, Bertha Anne (née Stephenson)
December 23, 1942 — May 12, 2026
Bertha “Bobbie” Anne Cascanette, of Kelowna, passed away peacefully at home on May 12, 2026, with family by her side.
Bobbie is survived by her daughter, Suzanne; granddaughter, Allison (Jake); brothers, Jim, Norman, Chuck, George, and Wayne; and many nieces and nephews who adored their “Aunt B.”
She was predeceased by her husband, John “Jack” Edmond Cascanette (d. 1993); sisters, Alice, Laura, and Mary; brothers, Robert and Earl; and parents, Lyle and Elva (née StAmond) Stephenson.
Bobbie had a fulfilling career in computer information systems and customer service, which took her from Ottawa to the beautiful city of Kelowna, where she made her home. In retirement, she dedicated her time to volunteering at Kelowna General Hospital and the Parkinson Recreation Centre. During her more than twenty years in Kelowna, she built friendships that became like family to her.
In her leisure time, Bobbie enjoyed bingo, cribbage, walking, aqua fit, curling, knitting, laundry, sewing, and embroidery. She also took great pride in caring for her patio garden, which brought joy to all who admired her many flowers in a wide array of hues and colours. She typically spent her mornings having a cup of coffee while doing crosswords and her computer puzzles, from solitaire to mahjong. Her evenings were just as full, as she was a formidable couch competitor on Jeopardy! and a devoted fan of her soaps, or doing what she loved most of all – video-chatting with her favourite granddaughter, Allison.
To her granddaughter Allison, Bobbie was “Some Grandmother” — terrific, radiant and humble in every way.
The family wishes to express their heartfelt gratitude to the BC Palliative Program, the BC Cancer Centre, her oncologists, Dr. De Angelis and Dr. Kooy, her family physician, Dr. Davidson, and her entire care team for their compassionate care and support.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Bobbie’s memory to the Kelowna BC Cancer Centre.
In place of a service, Bobbie requested that a Mass Intention be offered for her. This will take place on SATURDAY, MAY 30, 2026, at 4:00 P.M., located at ST. PIUS X CHURCH, 1346 Gordon Drive, Kelowna, BC. All are welcome to attend or to remember her in their thoughts and intentions, wherever they may be.
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Bobbie wanted this shared with all whom she loved and who loved her:
The Fallen Limb – Unknown Author
A limb has fallen from the family tree.
I keep hearing a voice that says, “Grieve not for me.”
Instead, remember the best times we shared
The good life I have lived
My mind is at ease, my heart at rest
Go on with traditions both big and small
Go on with your lives, don’t worry my loves
I am with you always – walk true and walk tall
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Saturday, May 30, 2026, at 4:00 pm
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St. Pius X Catholic Church
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What a vibrant woman with a full life and an even fuller heart. She will live on in all your fond memories. ♡
My sincere condolences to Sue and Allison. Bobbie was such a great person and friend from our days at Careerware. You will be missed Bobbie.
Oh no, Suzanne I am sorry for your loss 😢
Many big hugs and warm thoughts to Allison and Suzanne.. She will be missed 🙏
Bobbie, you are now a bright star in the heavens. Shine on dear friend, always and forever in my heart.
My sincere condolences to the family and friends may you find comfort in this difficult time.
Dear Suzanne &Allison,
My deepest sympathies goes out to the two of you. Bobbie and I worked together at Bridges and we had many coffee dates, this I will truly miss. She was not only a friend but a part of my family. She was a wonderful woman with a big heart, always had a smile and a warm hug. PS Ally you were always the apple of her eye. And she was so proud of you. I will forever miss you my friend, till we meet again.
Allison we are so sorry for your loss. Bobbi was loved and loved you so much, you were her angel these past few months. Our Deepest Heartfelt condolences to you and the family. Hugs ❤️
Our sincere condolences to Suzanne and Allison and all of the cousins Stephenson family. I enjoyed chatting with Bobbie over the past few years, especially sharing memories of our family visits to Blasdell to see our Aunt Elva, Uncle Lyle, and all the ‘cuzes’.
it was an honour to know Bobbie – so much kindness and compassion and humour in one little body!
we will miss you Bobbie.
Sending our condolences and happy memories.
With love John and Alex in California.
Haven’t seen Aunt Bertha in decades but I remember her as having a big personality and very friendly. May she rest in peace
My sincere condolences to Bobbie’s Family! She was an awesome Ottawa import/addition to our Career Information Company here in Kelowna and fit right in from the git-go! with the staff & clients! Her friendly, bubbly personality shone through day-in, day-out! She definitely had a positive impact on those that she worked with! She will be missed!
Bobbi was one of those rare people who quietly became part of the fabric of other people’s lives.
After she retired, she looked after my son Nick for many years, picking him up after school and bringing him to my workplace. What started as helping out became something far deeper. Nick absolutely adored spending time with her. She taught him how to play crib, shared her humour and patience with him, and over the years he came to love her like a grandmother.
Bobbi had a lifelong gift for helping people. We worked together in computers, and later she volunteered teaching seniors how to use technology and computers with patience and kindness. She helped spark in me the rewards of helping others — especially seniors struggling with technology — something that continues to this day. That willingness to help and encourage others was simply who she was.
She also had a tremendous sense of humour and always seemed to have the perfect one-liner in a conversation. Bobbi had a way of making people feel comfortable and welcomed wherever she was.
In her final weeks, it was impossible not to be deeply moved watching the bond between Bobbi and her granddaughter Allison. The love between them was extraordinary. Allison took a leave of absence to care for her grandmother with remarkable devotion, kindness, and grace. They truly worshipped each other, and it was a privilege to witness that love so closely.
Bobbi leaves behind the kind of legacy that matters most: kindness, humour, generosity, loyalty, and the countless everyday moments that become treasured memories for the people fortunate enough to know her.
She will be deeply missed and very fondly remembered
It’s with great sadness to hear we lost such a wonderful friend…We were neighbors for many years .After I had to leave and move to Florida with family we always kept in contact …phone calls Xmas cards etc…..we had just talked recently and I thought she sounded strong ..now I know she in her own way wanted to say goodbye …Goodbye my friend, you will surely be missed ….
Although I only knew Bobbi for a short time, I feel very privileged to have spent the last few weeks with her. She was such a warm and intelligent person, who made you feel like you were special. Bobbi was the special one. I know she is now out of pain and is looking down at us with love. Keep smiling, Bobbi. You are greatly missed!
Sorry for your loss, Allison and Suzanne. Bobbie babysit my children for many years — she was so loving, cheerful and helpful. I am grateful to have met her when we moved to Kelowna, she will be truly missed.