We Remember
DIDYK, Marvin
February 5, 1959 — July 11, 2022
On July 11th, 2022, Heaven gained an incredible angel with the loss of the heart of our family, Marvin Dale Didyk. He was a beloved husband, adored father, idolized “Geido”, cherished son, brother, and friend to everyone who was lucky enough to know him, and the kind of person this world needs more of. Marv was only 63 and left this world far too soon. Our hearts are broken.
Marvin was born February 5, 1959, in Spirit River, Alberta. He grew up in Abbotsford, BC. He founded Unique Homes, Inc. at 16, and over the next 45 years built hundreds of homes in Abbotsford, Mission, Kelowna and other cities – for which he won many regional and provincial awards. Often when his houses are re-sold, they are touted as “Didyk” homes – his name became synonymous with quality and excellence. Thousands of people wake up each morning, send their kids to school, enjoy family dinners, and sleep assured of their safety each night – all because of Marv.
Marvin built more than homes – he built relationships. If you were ever lucky enough to be Marv’s neighbour, you often woke up to find your driveway cleared of snow in the winter, or you were handed freshly grown fruit and vegetables over the fence in the summer. If you were ever fortunate enough to be invited to the annual Didyk crabbing trip in La Conner, you learned to bring a large cooler, because you would always return home loaded with fresh crab.
Beyond all of Marvin’s accomplishments, his greatest pride was his family. At 21, his future brother-in-law Larry set him up on the blind date that changed his life. Marvin met Marina, his soulmate – evidenced not only by their love for each other but also in their names… “Marina” means “of the sea” and “Marvin” means “lover of the sea”. Later that same year, they were married. In 1981, they welcomed Michael, and Crista followed two years later. Crista married Nathan, and soon after Marvin became a “Geido” to Lena (11) and Nate (9). After Michael married Vanessa, he became a Geido again with the arrival of Shea (4) and Ashe (2). Marvin is also survived by his parents Mike and Doris; by his siblings Doreen (Randy), Debbie (Brian), and Melvin (Tracey); by his best friend Larry and sister-in-law Caroline; and by dozens of extended family members and countless friends and respected colleagues.
As a grandfather (“Geido”), he has given his grandchildren a masterclass in humility, kindness, hard work and… gardening! He was always up for a dance break in the kitchen and was known for his hearty belly laughs. He somehow ensured Santa visited each year at Christmas – although he never seemed to be around when he arrived. He understood that to truly connect to his grandchild, it was important to get down on their level – so he would often be down on the floor playing with trucks or building elaborate Lego structures. Geido loved a good project, and taught us all to take pride in what we do and to do things right the first time – that “good enough” was not good enough.
Marvin’s Celebration of Life will be live streamed on Sunday, September 18, 2022. If you would like information about how to participate, please visit https://bit.ly/marvindidyk.
Marvin fought a courageous battle with Glioblastoma (GMB), a rare form of brain cancer. In lieu of flowers, if you wish to honour Marvin’s life, please donate towards defeating GBM via:
1. Brain Tumour Foundation of Canada, GBM Research, https://btfc.akaraisin.com/memoryofhope/marvindidyk
2. University of California, San Francisco Brain Tumor Center, Glioblastoma Research, https://givingtogether.ucsf.edu/marvindidyk
If you wish to send a condolence, post photos, or share a memory, please scroll down the page to the area called “Condolences”.
Service
Sunday, September 18, 2022
Location
For information on how to participate in the Celebration of Life please visit: https://bit.ly/marvindidyk.
Share with Others:
See bottom of obituary
Service Information
Service Details
The service for DIDYK, Marvin is scheduled for Sunday, September 18, 2022. Below you will find the map for the service location and the contact information should you have any questions.
Address & Contact for Service Location:
For information on how to participate in the Celebration of Life please visit: https://bit.ly/marvindidyk.
Phone:
Special Requests:
None.
Funeral Pointers:
Condolences
Dear Marina and family. Sadden to hear of the loss of Marvin . heaven gain your loss. Our hearts go out to you in prayer .Keep his memories sweet and talk about him often. Love. Jennifer
Sorry to hear about the passing of Marvin, I grow up in the same area of Abbotsford and played hockey with Marvin
We are very sorry to hear about your loss of Marvin to the scourge of GBM. He was a master carpenter and we are proud of the work he did on our home many years ago. We lost my sister to GBM 4 years ago and I hope your family will continue to make memories as we do. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Ron and Susan Gladiuk
Saddened to hear of Marv’s “untimely” passing. It has been my pleasure to work for Marv, whether directly or the family business. To Marina and family, to Mike and Doris, may the peace of God yours.
Ben wall
Dear Marina and Didyk family. Please except our deepest condolences. Marv was just an all around great guy. He will always be in our hearts. A huge loss to all that knew him. So sad. Rory and Janice Cook
Marvin was a teenager when his father, Mike, became my first client in 1972. I came to know this good family well and was always impressed with their honesty and hard work. Marvin started early in life as a builder. In the many times we met he was always a quiet, thoughtful, gentleman and a genuine pleasure to know. My heart goes out to Marina and the entire Didyk family on losing this wonderful man. Someone once wisely said “Surely, God’s greatest creation must be a good man.” Marvin Didyk was a good man. If, as the scriptures teach, there are many mansions in heaven, Marvin will be busy.
Dear Doris and Mike deepest sympathy in the loss of your son Marvin. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.
Dear Mike, Doris and family my deepest sympathy in the loss of your son Marvin. My thoughts and prayers go out to you. Shirley Williams ( former Columbia Kitchen Cabinets Employee)
Dear Marina, Michael, Crista and family,
We were saddened to hear of Marv’s passing. We always enjoyed our times with Marv at the hockey arenas. Thinking of you, Dale and Patty Craig
We are very sorry to hear of your loss of Marvin. Our deepest condolences to you all. I remember many good years working for Marvin on his houses.
Ron & Laura Peleshytyk
Was saddened to learn of Marvin’s passing. I went to Centennial elementary school in Abbotsford, BC with Marvin, and remember he had broken his leg. Playing softball with his cast, which went up from ankle to upper thigh, he still managed to run to first base! Some forty plus years later this memory still sticks in my mind, :-). RIP Marvin.
Sending our Deepest Condolences , Strength and Love, Cherish all Your Memories ❤️ Marv was a Great Guy. Love Sam and Bev Siemens
Dear Marina, Michael, Crista and the whole Didyk family
So sorry to hear of Marvin’s passing. My deepest condolences to you all. I have many fond memories of Marvin in our younger days, often laughing until we cried.
Our hearts go our to the whole Didyk Family. I was a Realtor in Mission and Abbotsford from 1976 until 1991 and sold many Mike and Marvin Didyk homes. Always Quality homes built buy super Quality and Ethical people. I got luck to enjoy a visit with them both from time to time. RIP Marvin!
Marina, Michael and Christa please accept my condolences on the loss of your wonderful husband, father and grandfather. My best wishes go to all the members of the Didyk family .
Marina, Michael, Christa & the Didyk family,
We our saddened by your loss and offer our sincere condolences.