We Remember
DOUCETTE, Mary “Irene” (née Mitchell)
October 20, 1927 — September 22, 2026
On September 22, 2026, on a warm Autumn afternoon, our world shifted with the loss of our dear Mother, Irene. It is with heartfelt sorrow, and hearts full of gratitude for a life well lived, that we announce her passing in Kelowna, BC.
Mom was a cherished wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and friend. She would have celebrated her 99th birthday in a few weeks. Born on October 20, 1927, to John and Agnes Mitchell, in Corner Brook, Newfoundland. She was very proud to have been born on her father’s birthday. Mom lived a long and fulfilling life. Throughout those years, she experienced a rapidly changing world, spanning almost 100 years. She experienced a lot. Alongside her husband, she travelled and lived in several places in both Canada and the United States. They built a life together, had a family, made lifelong friendships, and created countless memories with her family and friends, which will be remembered by all who knew her.
Mom cherished her family. She was no doubt, the heart of our home. There was always a delicious meal or baked goods to be had. It was no easy feat keeping her large family fed. Everyone was welcome around her kitchen table, and when you came to visit, you could always count on a bite.
Mom is survived by 3 of her 5 children, Douglas (Giovanna) of Calgary, AB., Derek (Helen) of St. John’s, NL, and Brenda (Bob) of Kelowna, BC; granddaughters, Sarah, Stefani (Kevin), and Christina (Justin). She also had 5 precious great-grandchildren, Allessandra, Noah, Patrick, Benji, and Juillett.
Irene was predeceased by many family and friends. More closely, her husband and love of her life, Bernard Joseph Doucette, born in New Waterford, Nova Scotia, in October 1924. They were married in January 1949 in Brantford, Ontario, until Dad passed away in 1994. She was also predeceased by her oldest son, Daniel, in 2014, and her second oldest son, David, in 2020.
Mom grew up in Corner Brook, Newfoundland. Coming from a large Catholic family, she was 1 of 11 children. She was predeceased by her parents, John and Agnes Mitchell, and by all of her siblings: brothers Jerome, Russell, and Jack, and sisters Monica, Helena, Marie, Barb, Loretta, Sylvia, and Ona. Mom also had many nieces and nephews who were dear to her, as well as her long-time friend Mary.
Mom was very proud of her Newfoundland heritage, and loved to tell stories about growing up in Corner Brook. She always spoke fondly about her parents, how her mother would sew her beautiful dresses, and how she would help her father plant potatoes in the garden, and how her dad loved his cod. She said one time, her dad dragged home a cod, longer than he was tall.
Mom was also proud of her Mi’kmaq Heritage, and the fact that her grandfather, Mattie Mitchell, is an historical figure in Newfoundland history. He was a hunter, trapper, and renowned guide. He travelled all over Western Newfoundland in the early 1900s on foot and by canoe.
Her Catholic faith was also an important part of her life. Mom carried it with her through both the joys and sorrows in her many years. She had a devotion to prayer and to the Rosary.
Irene was little in stature but mighty in spirit. She will be remembered for her generosity, compassion, and her acceptance of others. She was easy to make laugh, and loved to break out in song when she heard her favourite songs like “The Wild Rover” and “Danny Boy.” Never knowing all the words didn’t matter to her; she would sing and hum anyway. She loved it when her son-in-law, Bob, sang and played guitar for her. She loved people, nature, and animals. She loved to hear the birds sing and chirp; she loved dogs and always had one. She loved horses too, and always wanted one.
In 2018, Irene decided to sell her house in Corner Brook and move to Kelowna to be closer to her daughter, Brenda. We are grateful for the time she shared with us and were blessed to have had her for so long. Mom will be missed.
In accordance with her wishes, cremation has taken place, and Mom will be returned to Newfoundland, where she will be laid to rest with her husband Bernie, in the Field of Honour at Mount Pleasant Cemetery in St. John’s. Bernard Joseph Doucette was a member of the North Nova Scotia Highland Regiment and was a Canadian soldier who landed on Juno Beach, in Normandy, France, on D-Day.
Our family would like to thank all the teams of caregivers who helped care for Mom in the last year or so of her life. We are especially grateful for those that cared for her at David Lloyd Jones Long-Term Care Home.
Springfield Funeral Home in Kelowna, BC has been entrusted with her afterlife care and cremation.
May she rest in eternal peace with God, and sing with the Angels. “Good nite Irene, I’ll see you in my dreams”.
Look for me everywhere because that’s where I’ll be
In the hush of the morning, in the pull of the sea. In the rain on the window. In the bend of the trees. In the sun finding cracks where the dark used to be.
I’ll be there in the quiet, in the first falling snow, in the song that finds you when you need me to show. Love doesn’t leave when a heartbeat is gone. It moves into everything and keeps living on.
So when missing me is more than you can bear, remember you’ll find a little of me everywhere.
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A beautiful write up for a lovely lady. I chuckled when I read the part about singing Danny Boy. I can hear and see Irene in her kitchen on West Avenue singing it. Always keep the good memories with Irene. There are many.
Brenda, Doug, Derek and families.
My heart hurts knowing that the last of the Mitchell’s siblings, Aunt Irene, has passed but grateful to have had her in my life. I am thankful I was able to visit her for her birthday two years ago. She was a warm and caring soul. Find comfort in your memories and may her life be always a blessing.
So sorry for your loss. She was a wonderful mother and a very wonderful aunt. She will be missed. Sending big hugs.
I was blessed to have mama Doucette as a foster mom to myself and my four siblings. She and her husband opened their home and included us in her family with love and compassion. It was not an easy task taking in four children along with her own while raising 8 children but they did so with so much love. For that I will always be truly grateful. Brenda went home one day after school and told her parents about the hardship we were enduring and not once did Mama Doucette second guess or question her desire to reach out and welcome us into her family. You were an Angel on earth , you were my guardian angel and I know Heaven has welcomed you with open arms. I will Always keep you in my heart forever , until we meet again. Love Always
Mary Ann
To all those who loved dear Irene..( my 2nd cousin) My deepest sympathy to the loss and sadness you feel at this time. Rest easy with the angels!
I have such fond, cherished memories of the Doucette Family, and in particular Irene, and I revisit them often. You were like a second mother to me and always treated me as one of your own. I still remember Saturday evening hamburgers around your table and all the homemade cakes and cookies you shared so generously. You cared for your family, friends and community with such love and dedication. You also cared for yourself and cherished the gift of life. I thought of you often, and I will always be grateful for the place you gave me in your heart. I imagine you and Bernie together, wrapped in a trench coat of love, watching over us all. Thank you for being such a gift to me and to this world. Fly high, angel. 🕊️
Condolences. Sorry for your loss.
Dear sweet Irene….a Mother In Law who shared her laughter, stories (many !), compassion and love with me for many years. Heaven will be swaying and rockin’ a bit more . 💔🙏✨💫
Thinking of you all during this time. Irene was a real spark. She was such a bright light with her smile and laugh.
May you find peace in memories of her beautiful life.
My deepest condolences to all her children. Aunt Irene was certainly a pleasant person to visit over the years. I’m so glad she got to spend her final years in such a beautiful place with her beloved daughter. God bless you Irene and rest in peace.
Heartfelt condolences Brenda to you and your family. She lived a life that will continue on in the memories you will always have. She will be missed no doubt. Take comfort in that she’s a shining star always there. 🩷
What a beautiful tribute to your mother. She was like a breath of fresh air and always so welcoming. My mother Helena so loved Aunt Irene. Mom would look forward to packages from her with supplements and words of wisdom for longevity which must have worked as they both made it close to ninety nine years.. May all the wonderful memories help you through your loss.
Brenda, Derek, Doug and families, sincere condolences on the passing of your Mother. Aunt Irene was a gentle soul, always pleasant, with a lovely smile. I’m sure there are many nice memories you have that will keep her close to you. Take care of yourselves. Rest in peace, Aunt Irene. 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Brenda, your mother sounds like such an amazing person as was as your father. She was truly blessed to live almost 100 years. Our condolences on your loss.
Dear Brenda and Bob, Joe and I extend our heartfelt condolences to you. What a beautiful tribute to Irene, a lovely lady. How wonderful that she moved to Kelowna to be near you. Your many memories will be a comfort. much love, Ellen and Joe