We Remember
FRASER, Carleen Ann
October 10, 1956 — April 20, 2025
It is with great sadness and heavy hearts that we announce the passing of our beautiful mom, wife, and grandmother, Carleen Ann Fraser. On Easter Sunday, April 20th, at the age of 68, God took Carleen to heaven.
Carleen was born in Langenburg, Saskatchewan, to parents Romen and Hazel Hildebrandt. She lived in Langenburg on the family farm until she left home for nursing school, then settled in Brandon, Manitoba. Carleen met her devoted husband Neil in Brandon, where they married and had their two daughters, Danielle “Dani” and Nicole. Carleen and Neil enjoyed successful careers and many great friends and memories during their time in Brandon. In 2000, Carleen and Neil moved to beautiful British Columbia and settled in Kelowna. Carleen finished her nursing career with Baptist Housing, where she earned awards for her admirable leadership skills. In 2019, Neil and Carleen built their dream home with a magnificent view of Okanagan Lake. They spent many happy times on their back deck with a glass of wine, enjoying their fabulous view. Carleen lived the remainder of her life in Kelowna — a city she and Neil had always loved.
Carleen dedicated a great deal of her life to helping her loved ones, often putting others’ needs before her own. She was the type of person many people turned to for guidance. Carleen was unwaveringly strong in her Christian faith and spent a great deal of time attending Trinity Baptist Church, as well as volunteering as a Deacon, Elder, and Alpha leader there. She prayed for others on a daily basis, even those who would not have expected her to. Her personality was contagious, and she had the ability to connect with anyone she crossed paths with.
Carleen and Neil always loved staying active through hobbies such as walking (10,000 steps a day!), golfing, and curling. Carleen loved music and could often be found playing the bongos in her younger years, or playing the piano, ukulele, and singing with family and friends in her later years. She enjoyed many wonderful vacations with Neil, her family, and friends, including trips to Australia, Mexico, the Dominican Republic, and Hawaii/the US.
Many people over the years have referred to Carleen as being “one of a kind.” Not only was she beautiful inside and out, she was patient, caring, loyal, positive, determined, and incredibly strong. She told jokes that made people laugh until they cried. She would do anything for those she loved, and family was everything to her. There’s absolutely nothing Carleen wouldn’t have done for her husband, daughters, and four grandchildren.
Carleen is survived by her husband Neil; eldest daughter Dani (Nick); youngest daughter, Nicole (Anthony); and grandchildren, Cohen, Vayla, Harlow, and Hudson. She is also survived by her siblings Judy (Henry), Terry (Annette), Lynn (Frank), and Holly (Darren), and sister-in-law, June (Allan), as well as many extended family members and wonderful friends.
Carleen was diagnosed with multiple myeloma in July 2020. Her spirit and soul would’ve fought forever, but her body couldn’t fight any longer. In lieu of flowers or gifts, donations may be made to Myeloma Canada. It is Carleen’s family’s hope that there will one day be a cure for this disease.
We would like to extend a heartfelt thank you to Dr. Ketch, and the wonderful staff at the Hospice House Kelowna and BC Cancer Centre.
A celebration of Carleen’s life will be held on Saturday, May 17, 2025, at 11 a.m. at Trinity Baptist Church, 1905 Springfield Road, Kelowna, BC. Lunch will be served afterwards. Please honour Carleen’s vibrant personality by wearing bright Colours.
Thank you mom, for being the brightest light in our lives, a wonderful role model, and providing inspiration that will carry us throughout the rest of our lives.
Rest in peace — we will love and miss you forever.
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Service
Saturday, May 17, 2025, at 11 a.m.
Location
Trinity Baptist Church, 1905 Springfield Road, Kelowna, BC
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The service for FRASER, Carleen Ann is scheduled for Saturday, May 17, 2025, at 11 a.m.. Below you will find the map for the service location and the contact information should you have any questions.
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Condolences
Carleen was a beautiful lady is every way. Her love for Jesus was so evident. May God comfort you in your sorrow.
Carleen was always a pleasure to chat with when visiting my parents at Joseph Benjamin. She was always smiling, friendly and truly cared about the residents. Sorry to hear of the passing of such a vibrant lady. Our family appreciated her help with our parents while transitioning to Joseph Benjamin and her continued support she provided us while they lived there.
Sending my deepest condolences to Carleen’s family. I met Carleen through our shared Multiple Myeloma diagnosis. Carleen was a mentor to me and her strength and positive attitude was inspirational. She truly was one of a kind.
To Neil and family,
I remember Carleen from my days in Langenburg. I recall her as a warm, kind and an angelic nurse.. I am sorry for your loss, hold those cherished memories close and smile knowing she lived & loved well.
Our hearts are broken at the loss of our dear friend “Car” or as we used to call each other 40 years ago “Bird” … Carleen and I lived together in Brandon when we were nursing there … both married “Fraser” boys (not related), stood up with each other in our weddings, (in Carleen and Neil’s wedding we had “sunset photos” taken with the bridal party and then some of us had “sunrise” pictures taken on the tractor!) and we had two daughters each. We went on a Caribbean Cruise together, travelled and made memories that I will cherish forever. Although our lives took separate paths after we both married and their move to BC our hearts remained intertwined and when we got together it was as if no time had passed! So much reminiscing and laughter! Miss you “Bird” … your work on earth is done and you are now at peace in God’s hands. Love you …
We are sending prayers your way and hoping you know how much we care. BLESSINGS ..
Neil, Dani, Nicole and families, we are sending you much love and strength for the future. Sincere condolences on this immeasurable loss.
Carleen’s generosity, kindness and gratitude for life, love and family was endless. She was truly inspiring.
We are honoured to have been part of Carleen’s journey, as friends for several years and will hold those memories dear to our hearts.
Carleen’s sparkling eyes, generous heart and deep faith left a mark on her coworkers and residents. It was a privilege to work with her.
It is often difficult to understand why loved ones and their families walk certain life paths but rest in peace Carleen and condolences to Neil and the girls..
I am so grateful for every minute of I got to spend working with Carleen at Mill Creek. She was a mentor, a friend and an absolute angel that walked the earth. My deepest condolences to her family as she will be greatly missed. I will never forget you Carleen.
Karen Elliott
Condolences to your whole family. Carleen was such a light
Neil, Dani and Nicole,
I am heartbroken to hear of the recent passing of Carleen. She was a special role model in my life at Village at Mill Creek. Such a happy , positive leader that many of us looked up to. She always said or did the right thing. What a beautiful soul and she will be dearly missed by all that knew her.
Our hearts go out to you all.
Rob and Patti Zerr
Beautiful woman – inside and out. Kind and gentle. So sorry for your loss.
I’m sorry to hear about Carleen’s passing. Our condolences to you and your families.
Our sincere condolences to all of Carleen’s family. From the moment we met her, she was warm, and genuine . She was a lovely soul and her faith in Jesus was inspiring. We are thinking of you all during this difficult time. May you find comfort as you celebrate Carleen’s beautiful life. With love and prayers from our family to yours. Dave and Carolyn
My sister and I had the pleasure of gathering with our Langenburg cousins in Kelowna last October. Several years had passed since some of us had seen each other. Carleen…..what a beautiful, kind, and compassionate soul she had. Her positive attitude and her faith, even in the face of difficult times shone through! I will forever be grateful that I could spend time with her again.
Our sympathies are extended to Neil, Dani and Nicole as well as all of Carleen’s extended family and friends.
My dear friend. I met you in Grade 1 in Langenburg, and we immediately became best friends. I always aspired to be more like you. As our lives took us in different directions, we stayed connected and our friendship never wavered. I wept today when I learned of your ascent to Heaven. You were an angel on Earth and I know your good work will continue. Thank you so much for our ongoing friendship. I will forever feel blessed to have had you in my life.💔
I worked with Carleen and she was such a caring person. She touched the lives of many in the very best way.. My condolence to her loved ones.
I am so sorry to hear of Carleens passing.
I had the pleasure of working with Carleen at Joseph Benjamin Residence. She was always kind and compassionate and was truly a great leader. Everyone loved Carleen. Sending my deepest sympathies to the family.
Dear Neil, Dani, Nicole and family, We are so sorry for your loss. Carleen fought a courageous fight and now is it’s peace without pain. We are so fortunate we had the opportunity to get to know her Our prayers are with you 🩷Linda and Gary
Sincere condolences to Carleen’s family. I got to know Carleen in Langenburg. We also attended the same Church. She was always like a ray of sunshine. So sorry hear of her passing.
We had the pleasure of knowing Carleen for many years, as a friend and a work colleague. She will be deeply missed. Please know our thoughts are with you all.
Carleen even though our friendship was brief Barry and I and the girls will miss you. Sorry we can’t be with Neil and your family in celebrating your life on Saturday. Heaven has gained a wonderful angel.
After moving to the house beside Neil & Carleen about 20 years ago, my new neighbors became my good friends. As everything I was thinking of writing here has been already been said better than I could have, all I can add is a huge ditto to all those beautiful comments. It has truly been an honor to have been Carleen’s, & her whole incredible family’s, friend all these years. She will be missed for sure. Our sincerest & heartfelt condolences to all of you.
Condolences to the entire Fraser family.
Carleen was a wonderful friend! We always had wonderful visits when we got together! See you again in heaven my dear friend!
Pat & John Bastone