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ITANI, Thomas Taketoshi

May 1, 1937 — August 6, 2013

Born May 1, 1937, passed away August 6, 2013 at Sutherland Hills Care Home. He leaves to mourn his loss his loving wife Beryl, one son Derek (Tracey), stepchildren Carol (Brian Malmas) and Jim (Nicola) Stobie, his grandchildren Carlee, Lindsay, Taylor Malmas, Connor Itani and Paton Stobie. Also mourning his loss are his sisters, Nancy (Dick) Minato, Linda (Iaso) Terai, Anne (Kaz) Murata, his brothers Ted (Fran) Itani, Bing Itani and many nieces, nephews, cousins and friends. The family wish to thank Dr. Eliason, Dr. Hawker and Crystal, the staff at Cottonwoods Short Stay Unit and Sutherland Hills Care Home for their care and compassion during his brief stay. Tom’s service will be held at First United Church, Richter and Bernard on Saturday, August 10, 2013 at 3:00 pm with Reverend Dr. Lorna Hillian officiating. No flowers by request. Please donate to the charity of your choice in Tom’s memory. If you wish to send a condolence, post photos or share a memory, please scroll down the page to the area called “Share Your Condolences.”

 

Service
Saturday, August 10, 2013 at 3:00 pm

Location
First United Church

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Service Details


The service for ITANI, Thomas Taketoshi is scheduled for Saturday, August 10, 2013 at 3:00 pm. Below you will find the map for the service location and the contact information should you have any questions.

Address & Contact for Service Location:

First United Church

721 Bernard Ave., Kelowna, BC

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Condolences

  • Morley & Rita Halter says:

    Beryl and family. We are so very sorry for your loss.
    With deepest sympathy,
    Rita and Morley Halter

  • David Burgin says:

    Beryl,

    I would like to extend my heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
    You are in our thoughts and prayers today and in the days ahead.
    Respectfully, David

  • Lisa Yamaoka says:

    Beryl and Family,

    I was so sad to hear of Uncle Tom’s passing. I always enjoyed talking to him when I had the chance to do so. He will be missed. My thoughts are with you and your family at this time.

  • Sandi Giddings says:

    Beryl I am sorry for your loss of your beloved husband. He gave you such a glow,he was a special man who loved you for who you were because as busy as you were his selfless character supported you but still let you be who you were. If I was beside you I would give you the biggest hug,because you are a very special lady .my condolences . Sandi Freier Giddings

  • Carolyn Wray says:

    Beryl – I am so very sorry to hear of Tom’s passing. “A life well lived leaves its gentle pattern on the hearts of all…and the world is a lovelier place because one person touched it with warmth and goodness and grace.”
    Carolyn

  • Patti & Sam DiMaria says:

    Dear Beryl
    We were saddened to hear of Tom’s passing, such a kind compassionate man ! He used to buy pears from me and he told me he did the canning!!! I always admired how indrustrious he was & loved having him as a customer! May he have found peace in his new life and may you find peace in your wonderful memories of him.
    Love & God Bless
    Patti & Sam DiMaria

  • Lea Braybrook says:

    Beryl and family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

    Lea Braybrook

  • Joan Rutledge & Family says:

    Dear Beryl:
    Sending my heartfelt condolences on Tom’s passing. He left a legacy of generosity, and kindness, and will always be remembered. (Especially for the treats he gave to “Aunty Joan”!!)

    You are in my thoughts and prayers.

    Love to you and yours
    Joan
    xo

  • Sharon Shepherd says:

    Beryl and family,
    Thinking of you during this difficult time.Tom will be missed and hope all the wonderful memories will lessen the pain.
    Sharon and Michael Shepherd

  • owen tagseth says:

    very sorry to hear of your loss. many great memories from the past come to mind. my thoughts are with you.
    owen

  • Pamela Johnstone says:

    You are in our thoughts.

  • Jack and Sharon Gourlie says:

    I send condolances and my sincere heartfelt sympathy to Beryl and Tom’s whole family.

  • Lee and Rhonda Varley says:

    Beryl and family
    We where saddened to hear of Toms passing a caring thoughtful individual. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
    Lee and Rhonda Varley

  • Dawn Wilkinson says:

    Beryl, you are being lifted up in prayer by many people in our community.

  • Laurie Lazorko says:

    Beryl and Family, I was saddened to hear about the passing of your husband and father. Your wonderful memories will keep him close to you.
    Take care,
    Laurie

  • Heather and Hugh says:

    Hugs from both of us Beryl. We are so sorry about your loss.

  • Julie Spencer says:

    To Beryl and family,
    We are so sorry to hear of Tom’s passing and send our sincere condolences to all of you.
    Bob Partridge and Julie Spencer

  • Teri LaBoucan says:

    Beryl and family, although our lives only touched briefly, I would like to say how sorry I am for your loss, my heart goes out to you all. I am glad Tom is at peace now.
    Doreen and Archie send their condolances as well.
    (Teri,Doreen Watson’s companion)

  • Randy and Shirley says:

    Dear Beryl,
    So sorry to hear about Tom……..remembering Tom during our Snowfest days…our thought and prayers are with you

    Randy & Shirley

  • Ron and Joan Firkus says:

    So sorry to hear of Tom’s passing. Our condolences go out to you and all the family. I am so pleased we got to see Tom while we were visiting my sister in Cottonwoods a few months ago. Best wishes to all.
    Ron and Joan (nee Ingram)

  • Myra Majeran says:

    Beryl,
    My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. May the love of those around you help you through the days ahead.

  • Stacie Osborne says:

    Beryl

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May your happy memories of Tom always be with you.

    Stacie Osborne

  • Ron and Wilma Swail says:

    So sorry to hear of the loss of your husband Beryl -thoughts and prayers for
    you and your family. Will let Bea know (at her cabin Babine Lake)
    when she calls. Wilma/Ron Swail

  • Joanne Ukno says:

    Dear Beryl and family – I have just learned about Tom’s passing and wanted to send my sincere condolences. I had the pleasure and the honour of working with Tom as pharmaceutical colleagues at Bayer many years ago. I have many fond memories of times spent at meetings where I learned so much from him and am so grateful to have known such an outstanding and kind man.

  • Deborah Silk says:

    Beryl, our most sincere condolences from the CDART volunteers.

  • Cynthia Waldek-Peters says:

    Beryl:
    Deepest sympathy to you and your family. Prayers and thoughts are with you in the coming days.
    Much love
    Cynthia Waldek-Peters

  • Bruce Smith says:

    Dear Beryl and family
    We’re so sorry for your loss and hope your memories will ease the sadness. You are in the thoughts and prayers of our family.

  • Robert Hooker says:

    Beryl & Family
    My condolence to you and the family, I was glad to meet him while I was in the same room at Cottonwoods.

  • len & susan cook says:

    Dear Beryl
    We were so sorry to hear of Tom’s passing. Please accept our condolences and our thoughts and prayers will be with you.

  • Bill & Rose Baggett says:

    Dear Beryl and family,

    So sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts are prayers are with you all. We enjoyed meeting Tom and chatting a bit with him during his stay in Cottonwoods.

    With Warmth

    Bill & Rose Baggett

  • Debbie Erdely ( ctw ) says:

    So sorry to hear about Tom. My thoughts are with you.

  • Gordon Chore says:

    Beryl and family our condolences on Tom’s passing, he was a special person and we have fond memories. Gord and Luanne Chore

    • Carol and Ray Page says:

      Beryl and Family
      We are so very sorry of your loss. Uncle Tom as we knew him was an awesome gentleman. I felt privileged to have met Tom following Gail’s passing. Rog shared many wonderful stories of his times with Tom.
      Our thoughts are with you

  • Helen Sinclair says:

    Beryl,
    Please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of your husband. While I did not know him, any time you spoke of him (or your family), it was readily apparent that he was the centre of your universe.
    You are in the thoughts and prayers of so many…may this sustain you in the days ahead…
    Sincerely,
    Helen.

  • Ken and Jan Waldon says:

    Dear Beryl
    We just heard about Tom and are so very sorry. We remember how deeply you felt when you lost your mother and sister – this must be worse. May the beautiful memories ease the pain.
    With deep sympathy
    Ken and Jan W. (formerly North Westside ESS – now Vernon ESS NOMADS.

  • Ian Cabral says:

    I am deeply sadenned to hear of Tom’s passing. He was an inspiration to all of us at Miles/Bayer Pharmaceuticals. His words of wisdom were always welcome.

  • Natalie says:

    Beryl, my thoughts and prayers are with you. So sorry to hear of your loss.

  • Linda Gagnon says:

    Beryl and families,
    So sorry to hear of your loss,
    our thoughts and prayers are with you.
    Linda and Mel Gagnon

  • Brenda & Hans Snel says:

    Dear Beryl and family,
    We were so sad to hear of Tom’s passing. He was one of the most giving and gentle people we had ever met. Our hearts go out to you, Beryl. We know you have many wonderful memories to sustain you during this very difficult time.
    Hugs,
    Brenda & Hans

  • Joan Loyst says:

    so sorry to hear of Tom’s passing. My condolences to you Beryl and the family It
    was so nice to see you, Tom and some of the family at Cottonwoods. My thoughts are with you.

  • gord irish says:

    Beryl
    Winni and I extend our heartfeld condolences on Tom’s passing. He will always be the king of Sushi to me.I know you had wonderful times together,let those memories help get you threw the future.

    your Snofest son

    Gord

  • Julia Sollows says:

    Beryl,

    So sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and you family at this difficult time.

  • Allan and Betty Richards says:

    Dear Beryl and Family,
    Allan and I feel so very, very sad to read of your Tom’s recent death. What a terrible loss for you Beryl, for your family and for all of your friends. We had no idea that Tom was so ill and we wish we could have been helpful in some way.We are with our family on Naxos, Greek Island, for July and August. Hopefully, we can meet in Sept. Beryl, we’re sending you our love and best wishes. Allan and Betty Richards

  • Ken Thompson says:

    I’m so sad to hear of Tom’s passing. I always enjoyed my short conversations with him when I called you for ESS. He had a great sense of humour and will be missed. Your ESS family is here for you.

  • Milton and Esther Reece says:

    We were so sorry to hear of Tom’s passing. We remember him with affection. The Milton Reece family

  • Clarence & Maria Johnson says:

    Beryl & Family

    So sorry to hear about your loss. It’s always hard to lose a loved so close to you – thoughts & prayers go out to you and your family!!

  • Wendy Robertson says:

    Beryl I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  • Ron & Betty Wiebe says:

    Beryl:

    Our deepest sympathy for Tom’s passing. Tom was a beautiful person. You are in our thoughts and prayers in such a sad time.

  • Barbara Ball says:

    Dear Beryl and Family, I wish you peace, comfort and courage as you face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts. With love and hugs, Barbara Ball

  • Elizabeth (Betty) Law says:

    Dear Beryl and Family,
    We were saddened to hear of Tom’s passing, and wanted to send you our deepest sympathy at this time. We hope you will feel the continuous presence of his love sustaining you through the days ahead. Love and Blessings to all.e-mail me_time@hotmail.com

  • Gina Sallows says:

    Beryl
    I am very sorry to hear of Tom’s passing. He was a wonderful Man! My thoughts are with you & your family and express my deepest sympathy.
    Gina Sallows

  • Val and Norm Fix & Family says:

    Dear Beryl and Family;
    Wishing you and your family strength and peace. It’s hard to understand why people are taken from us, but find comfort in knowing you were a special part of a well-lived life. Tom was special. Please know we will be around and if you just need some one to talk to, were here.
    With all our Love
    Val Norm and Family

  • Cyril Chalk says:

    Dr. Beryl and family

    I was so sorry to read of Tom’s passing. Please be assured of the great support, love, and prayers for all of you at this time. May the memories of times together and our future hope provide strength and comfort at this time’

    Blessings,

    Cyril and Rose Chalk

  • Beryl Baldeo says:

    Dear Beryl and family;
    May the Lord strengthen and comfort you in the days ahead. Tom was a gracious man and such a support to you for all the work you have given to our community.
    Love and sympathy,
    Beryl Baldeo

  • Crystal Harris-Hewlett says:

    My Dear Beryl & Family,
    My heart,thoughts,& tears are with you at this very hard but peaceful time. I was blessed to know Tom, He was a asset to use all. Berly you where the stength and the Love he Cherished so much. Sweet Dreams Tom, till we meet again. Brightest Blessings.

    Crystal,
    Hskg Cottonwoods

  • Jan & Dennis Norgard says:

    Dear Beryl,

    We are deeply saddened to hear of your loss. We wish that we had gotten to know Tom. He was obviously held in high regard by those who knew him well. Our most sincere condolences to you and your family. Jan & Dennis Norgard

  • Brian Drought says:

    Beryl & family,
    I just found out the sad news and pass on my condolence…I attended George Pringle with Tom, Ted, Bing & Linda so my thoughts go out to all the family…love country music and Tom, Bill & Moby played it well. photo attached from a mini reunion at Westbank Yacht club in 2007 with Don Mackay, Beryl & Tom

  • Karen & Alex Flavin says:

    Our thoughts are with you all during this difficult time.

    Alex and Karen Flavin

  • Marilyn Hussey says:

    Please know Don and I are sure thinking of you at this time, and will always appreciate fond memories of Tom during your visits to Edmonton.
    We are so sorry for your loss.

  • Bill & Pierrette Gardner says:

    Dear Beryl,
    Our condolences to you and your family during this time of sorrow! Our thoughts are with you.
    Bill & Pierrette

  • Shannon says:

    Beryl, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I hope that all the good memories you created together brighten your days and help lift your spirits during this difficult time.

  • Stan Verran says:

    Dear Beryl and family, I was devastated to learn of Tom’s passing. He was very inspirational to me when I was a young teenager growing up in Kelowna in the early 60’s. I thought of him many times when I was the Canadian Military Attaché in Japan and he was the first person I called to show off my new Japanese language skills; it was about 40 years since we had talked. He talked about how blessed he was with such a loving wife and family. Again, he inspired me, this time to appreciate my family more than I had. I wish to send my love and deepest sympathy to you and your family and maybe some day we can meet and remember Tom.

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