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UPDATED SERVICE INFO: To view the Holy Mass for the repose of the soul of Irene Laidlaw with Fr. Cerlouie Jimenez on December 14, 2020, at 10:45 am (PST) 

Irene Laidlaw, affectionately known as “Ike”, passed away peacefully on November 18, 2020, in her home at the age of 85, with her loving family by her side.  She will be sadly missed by her daughter Wendi (Ron) Harding and grandchildren Jason Harding and Paige (Jeff) Cox, all of Kelowna; as well as her son Barry (Sandy) Laidlaw and grandchildren Cassidy Laidlaw and Quinn Laidlaw of Calgary.  Irene’s son Randy, who passed away in 1984, will be lovingly embracing her with his long outstretched arms once again.  Irene’s husband Richard “Dick”, who passed away in 2010, would have celebrated his birthday on November 19th. It is our belief that Ike wanted him to have the greatest birthday present she could give – to be by his side again forever.

Irene was the youngest daughter of Ellen and Albert Kurtz; sister to Dorothy Hall (Ron), Rita Tracey (Jim), James Kurtz, Ralph Kurtz, and Gerald Kurtz (Doreen); and sister-in-law Carol Sanvido, all who have passed before her.  She is survived by her only living sibling Wilfred (Dorothy) Kurtz; sisters-in-law Helen Kurtz and Ruth Kurtz; brother-in-law Reno Sanvido; as well as many nieces and nephews – all of whom will miss Auntie Ike dearly.

Ike was born in Guelph, ON, on August 8, 1935 – the youngest of 7 children.  When Ike was in her late teens, she worked at the Sally Shop in Guelph which is where she met her future husband and eternal life-mate Dick, a strapping young advertising delivery boy for the Guelph Mercury.  They married in 1954 in Guelph and then moved to Kirkland Lake, ON where they started their family of 3 children.  The family then moved around, going back to Guelph and then Trenton ON, before “heading west” to Kamloops, BC in 1969.  Ike, Dick and Barry moved to Calgary, AB in 1977 with Ike and Dick finally retiring to Kelowna, BC in 1990.

In all the cities Ike lived, she not only carried on a professional career but contributed tirelessly into her volunteer efforts with Beta Sigma Phi – an international organization embracing Life, Learning & Friendship – qualities that she lived daily.  She originally joined Beta Sigma Phi in 1967 and over the past 50 years has held every position from President to Member Advisor multiple times. Her extensive contribution to Beta Sigma Phi was recognized with many honours including, Woman of the Year and the ultimate International Award of Distinction. Beta Sigma Phi will miss a truly exceptional lady and giving member.

Irene was also an artistic crafter and extraordinary seamstress.  So many people benefited from her many talents with window treatments, convention attire, Christmas décor, Calgary Stampede outfits, as well as her daughter’s wedding dress and granddaughter’s first day of school outfit, to name a few.  She has also hosted so many events – Legacy Teas with Beta Sigma Phi, Stampede Breakfasts, Conventions, Charity Gift Wrap Projects, Hospice Calendar Projects, Red Alert Programs, Curling Bonspiels, and of course, Dick’s Annual Golf Tournament.

Give, give, give was Irene’s mantra in life.  Tirelessly through her actions, reaching out to positively impact everyone she touched.  Doing for others and not asking for anything in return.  Do all the work, let others take the spotlight, then stand in the background with humility and honour.  The world has lost a very special person. She has made all of our lives better – for that we will be eternally grateful.

Due to COVID-19 restrictions, a private family Funeral Mass will be held at Immaculate Conception Church in Kelowna, with Interment at the Kelowna Memorial Park Cemetery to follow, where she will be laid to rest beside her husband Dick and son Randy.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Heart and Stroke Foundation, www.heartandstroke.ca, or the BC Cancer Foundation, www.bccancer.bc.ca.

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  • Rusty Lovelock says:

    I remember when Irene lived next door with husband Dick on Harrison Ave. She & my mother Rita (deceased) could keep the neighbourhood movin with their coffees & cigarettes
    I remember when Irene & Dick lived next door on Harrison Ave Guelph many moons ago. She & my mum Rita (deceased) could sure keep the neighbourhood movin with their coffee & cigarettes. I would have been in high school at the time —
    over 60 yrs ago
    God bless her

    • Wend Harding says:

      Hi Rusty and thanks so much for bringing up such great memories! Yes our Moms were definitely the socialites of Harrison Avenue, along Mrs. Keller across the street. Your sister, Lori, Bev Keller and myself sure got into some mischief together. You were just a little gaffer then. Feel free to email me at r.wharding@shaw.ca. Love Wendi

  • Ken Soderberg says:

    Condolences to your family on the passing of Irene (Ike) , She was indeed a great lady. I so enjoyed the time she worked with me in Calgary and the fun that was had at house parties she and Dick hosted .
    Regards Ken Soderberg

    • Wendi Harding says:

      Hi Ken, Thanks so much for your comments. Yes Mom was a great lady and we will all miss her terribly. She was a terrific host and many were lucky to be at her and Dad’s parties. Always a good ole’ fashion Calgary fun time! My brother Barry was fortunate enough to be living with them at that time and always reaped the benefits of some great left-overs! We suspect her and Dad are together again already planning the next party!
      Stay well and thanks for reaching out.
      Wendi and Barry

  • Patti and Lloyd Congdon says:

    Wendi and family , we are so sorry to hear of your moms passing ! She was such a lovely soul , I remember her from sorority and the Rockets games with your dad and friends!

    • Wendi Harding says:

      Hi Patti & Lloyd, Thanks so much for your comments. We will also miss Mom so much. Her and Dad so enjoyed the Rocket games and the good times before and after them! We take comfort in knowing her and Dad are now reunited. I hope you both are staying safe and well. Take care,
      Wendi and family

  • Bev Keller Olton says:

    Wendi and family, so sad to hear about your Mom, so many good memories starting on Harrison Ave , Trenton and Calgary. very talented lady sewing everything from baton uniforms to entire bridal. parties. I always hoped she knew how grateful I was when she and your Dad let me stay with them in Calgary. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time. Love Bev and family . Maybe we could talk 1-519-836-5274

    • Wendi Harding says:

      Hi Bev – Thanks so much for your post. My oh my Harrison Ave days were good memories and good times! Here is my email address so we can re-connect as some point. r.wharding@shaw.ca
      Talk to you soon, Love Wendi

  • Ann Beattie says:

    To Ike’s family, my sincere condolences on the passing of your effervescent Mum! I worked with Dick when he was setting up the Thomson Calgary office. The highlight for the small Calgary crew was being invited to one of Ike’s dinners where she sparkled and Dick grinned! Dnner conversations ranged all over the place and there was so much laughter. In the early 80s one topic centred around where each guest might choose to be buried. Ike immediately picked Kelowna. Dick looked at her quizzically and said, “Why Kelowna? We’ve lived all over Canada but never in Kelowna..” Ike quickly responded, “Dont worry, Dick, I make friends quickly!” So glad they had some good years before she went to her final rest. You will miss her dearly. Sincerely, Ann Beattie

  • Kim McManus says:

    Barry, Sandy, Cassidy and Quinn,
    I was so sorry to hear of Ike’s passing. I will always remember her as a beautiful, classy and wonderfully friendly lady. I really enjoyed our chats when she was watching Cassidy at the gym. Sending love and prayers to your family.

  • Marie Rhodes says:

    We are so sorry that you lost your mom, Ike. She and Dick and Barry were our across the street neighbours on Silver Hill Way. When we pulled out our Christmas decorations, there were the Mr. and Mrs. Santa your mom made for us. What a wonderful neighbour! The photo captures her effervescence.
    We were so privileged to have known her and the family.
    Marie and Doug Rhodes and Bobby and Kathleen

  • Trent and Liz Gahan says:

    Barry, Sandy, Cassidy Quinn.
    Our deepest condolences in the passing of your
    Mom and grandma , may all the fond memories lift your spirits during this sorrowful time.
    The Gahan Family

  • Shelley Domonkos (Wadden) says:

    Hello Wendy and Barry;
    I wanted to say how very sorry I am for your loss. As you know I really cherished your Mom and Dad and the connection with them that kept me close to Randy. I’m sure they’re together now, all of them, and for that I am happy. Your family has always been close in my thoughts over the years. May you find peace in the memories you hold close.

  • Gloria DiFazio says:

    Wendy and Barry, Frank and I send our heartfelt condolences on the loss of your mother. She will always be remembered with a smile, and needless to say, as you know, very instrumental in paving our future:.

  • Karen and Derek Vettese says:

    Wen, Ron Jason Paige Barry Sandy Cassidy and Quinn
    Our heartfelt condolences on the loss of your Mum and Grams. Ike was a very special lady and she will be sorely missed. Loved her sense of humour and still have the wonderful tablecloth she made for me. Such a wonderful seamstress . Love and hugs Karen & Derek

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