We Remember
MESSER, Malery Rodney “Rod”
July 6, 1948 — November 13, 2024
Rod peacefully passed away at home on November 13, 2024, surrounded by his loving family. He was raised in Huntoon, Saskatchewan, the essence of his roots remained a part of his thoughts and memories. After moving to the Okanagan as a young adult and meeting Glenna, he was welcomed by the Todd family in Peachland, BC.
He is survived by his devoted wife, Glenna, with whom he shared 55 wonderful years of bliss, as well as by his children Brendan, Brian, and Elisa, and their spouses. Rod was a proud grandfather to his four beloved grandchildren: Abbott, Bennett, Emelia, and Edith.
A true helper at heart, Rod possessed a remarkable ability to tackle any challenge—he seemed to know how to fix everything—often with just a little time and a few carefully chosen words. He built many houses in the Okanagan and loved to point out the homes he made. He also volunteered as a firefighter in Westbank, helping his community.
Rod enjoyed simple things like going for coffee, hunting, fishing, visiting garage sales, and tinkering in his garage. He loved being with his family, spending time with his pets, and making memories together.
Everyone will remember Rod for his warm heart, sense of humour, and strong spirit. His kindness and love for his family will be missed.
There will be a celebration of his life on Friday, November 29, 2024, at 10:00 AM, at Springfield Funeral Home (2020 Springfield Road, Kelowna, BC), followed by a short reception where people can share their favourite memories of him. Instead of flowers, the family asks for donations to the BC Cancer Foundation.
If you are unable to attend in person, please join the family online by Livestream at the time of the service (see below), a recording will be made available to view shortly thereafter.
If you wish to send a condolence, post photos, or share a memory, please scroll down the page to the area call “Condolences”.
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Service
Friday, November 29, 2024, at 10:00 AM
Location
SPRINGFIELD FUNERAL HOME
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Service Details
The service for MESSER, Malery Rodney “Rod” is scheduled for Friday, November 29, 2024, at 10:00 AM. Below you will find the map for the service location and the contact information should you have any questions.
Address & Contact for Service Location:
SPRINGFIELD FUNERAL HOME
2020 Springfield Road Kelowna, BC
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Special Requests:
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Condolences
So sorry to hear of Rod’s passing …such a wonderful man to have shared many memories with over the years with, a good friend gone too soon………..my Condolences to Glenna and family
My heart felt condolences to all the families.
Glenna, we are so sorry to hear of your loss. We have fond memories of meeting at Marriage Encounter 1983 and following up in a small group where we really got to know you and Rod. Love and prayers to your and your family. Wilf and Bev Akerlund
Linda and I send our sincere condolences at you and your family’s loss.
To the best neighbors Rod and Glenna So many memories chatting over the fence. An amazing beautiful funny man that will be dearly missed. Hope to see you again Rod. Sending our love with tears.
Our condolences to Rod’s family. Such a great guy. He will be missed by all who were fortunate enough to know him.
My sincerest condolences to Brendan and family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
I am deeply saddened by Rod’s loss. We didn’t see each other very often, but I always enjoyed visiting with him. I’m sure he has left a hole in all of your hearts and I will be praying for you. I’m so glad he is no longer suffering. Love and hugs.
A wonderful man, he will be missed. Thinking of all the family.
Awe my dear Glenna..I am so sorry for your loss. I lift up a prayer for you and yours during this time ❤️
Sending our love and deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Sheldon & I send all our condolences, our love & hugs. We will miss seeing Rod’s smile & getting a hug. Our prayers go to each of you for these days ahead. Many HUGS & Love, Glenna, Brendan, Bryan & Elisa
We are so saddened that Uncle Rod is gone, but so happy that he is finally at peace and rest from his long battle. I am so grateful that he was able to get to know my wife and kids as well as spend time with us the last 4 summers. All our love and prayers are with everyone at this time. He will be missed but never forgotten.
We send sincere condolences to you, Glenna and your beautiful family. Rod will be forever remembered by us. Rod helped us in so many ways. He always knew how to fix things on our trailer and was always ready to lend a helping hand. We are honoured to have known Rod and Glenna over the years. He will be greatly missed by so many of us. Sending love and hugs. xx
Glenna,
I’m so sorry you had to say goodbye to Rod. I’m thinking of you and your family at this time. I’m so fortunate to have spent some time getting to know you both over the past couple of years. I admired the way he faced his challenges with bravery and optimism. He was truly a very special man. My most sincere condolences to you and your family.
Love, Becky
Our heart feels deep sadness at Rod’s passing, knowing that for now we will miss Rod’s laughter, friendship and his incredible gift of service. We are so very thankful for Rod’s friendship and that his last days were spent with family around him. Our love and prayers are with you Glenna, and Brendon, Bryan and Elisa and families.
Glenna and family so sorry for the loss of your Dear Rod.. He always had a smile for everyone.
My condolences to the family.
Rod was a wonderful man. I have many fond memories of time spent with him and his family. Rest in Peace my Friend!
Robin Findlay
Our Deepest Sympathy to you Glenna and all of your family. So glad we could join in to see the service. Brendan you did a beautiful tribute to your Dad. So sorry we couldn’t be there. Take Care all of you. Love Dahlila and Lawrence and family.
Glenna and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Rod was such a wonderful man. I have many fond memories of him from the fire department days, and houses he had framed over the years, for us. He will be missed . The service steam was beautifully done today, a terrific tribute to a beautiful soul. Rest In Peace Rod
I’m sorry to have missed the family. I was taking some long walks on holiday and taking much time to reflect on fond memories of time spent with Rod. His cheerful smile and laughter forefront in my thoughts. Often so fun and funny, a careing helpful good, good man. My sincere condolences to Glenna and all the family. He’ll be surely missed. Rest in easy peace Rod.
It is with heartfelt sympathy we say goodbye to a dear friend who was always there to lend a helping hand, fill a room with fun & laughter and share his delicious cinnamon buns.. He will be missed by many of us who had the pleasure of knowing him. My thoughts, Love, Prayers & Blessings are with you Glenna & family as you hold onto all the special memories that will live in your hearts forever. He is now free of all pain & suffering and resting in the hands of Jesus🙏❤️
I am so sorry to hear of your loss Glenna; he was such a character. I remember him coming into Brookhaven to visit your mom & all his teasing! He will be missed!
I am so sorry to hear of your loss Glenna – he will surely be missed!!