We Remember
NICHOLSON, John David
May 18, 1997 — July 14, 2024
A Celebration of Life has been scheduled for SATURDAY, OCTOBER 19, 2024, at 2:00 pm (EDT), at the HIGH PARK CLUB, 100 Indian Rd, Toronto, ON.
Broken-hearted, we announce the passing of our beloved John David Nicholson on July 14, 2024. John battled Bipolar Affective Disorder II. Though it ultimately claimed his life, he was much more – vibrant, strong, personable, smart, and caring, his departure is a profound loss to his family, friends, and the world.
Born in Toronto, Ontario, to loving parents John Charles and Susan Nicholson, John earned his undergraduate degree from Queen’s University and a postgraduate diploma from Ryerson. John had a love of nature. Whether playing outdoor sports, hiking, camping, or working in the field of geography, nature was woven into almost everything he did. His entrepreneurial endeavours involved working with wood and building 3D landscapes.
John grew up strong and swift, a natural athlete. He played many sports, with rugby being his favourite. He excelled in basketball and baseball and kept fit with a rigorous gym routine. Just this past month, his dad took him to the driving range. Without being a practised golfer, John hit drives over 300 yards, clearing the premises. He used his athleticism to better his community, recently participating in the Terry Fox Triathlon with his beloved dog, Sampson. A juxtaposition to his athletic prowess, John was also recognized as a nerd, enjoying Pokémon, D&D, and board games. He was into technology, such as laser & 3D printing.
As a first-year student, John met the love of his life, Hailey. They met through the Queens’s Quidditch team, now known as Quadball, a game that was a perfect fit for his multilayered personality, blending sport and fantasy. Together, they played on advanced teams.
John and Hailey shared a love for the outdoors. They hiked and camped together, even in extreme environments. One winter camping trip took them to the peaks of the Monashee Mountains, with temperatures dipping below -30 degrees Celsius.
Most recently, John worked as a GIS Technician for BC Timber Sales in Vernon, BC. He loved analyzing digital data and providing insights about the region. Even deep into technology, he remained connected to nature. As an entrepreneur, he built two companies: Trailhound Geographic and Braveburn Crafted Goods. Trailhound involved 3D printing topographical landscapes of real locations, and Braveburn combined woodworking with his love of board games, creating exquisite game pieces and accessories.
John’s artistic expression extended beyond working with his hands and technology. He was also a strong writer and loved to play his guitar.
Most of all, John was a light for others. Personable and caring, he would drive across the province to support a friend in need, give bear hugs that lifted you off your feet, and make friends with strangers everywhere. He befriended people from all walks of life and gave all he could and more.
John’s family is devastated by his loss. He leaves behind his parents, John Charles & Susan; his sister Jennifer & brother-in-law William; his loving partner Hailey; and his loyal companion Sampson. He will be dearly missed by his extended family, colleagues, and many friends across the country.
In honour of John’s memory, we urge everyone to raise awareness about Bipolar Affective Disorder. This condition affects many lives, often in silence. By understanding, supporting, and advocating for those who suffer, we can ease their burden and provide the help they need. Let us work together to ensure no more lives are lost to this disorder. Your voice, your support, and your compassion can make a difference. Let’s create a world where every person, like John, receives the support they deserve.
In lieu of flowers, please donate to the Terry Fox Foundation, a charity close to John’s heart. (see his video)
If you wish to send a condolence, post photos, or share a memory, please scroll down the page to the area call “Condolences”.
Service
SATURDAY, OCTOBER 19, 2024, at 2:00 pm (EDT)
Location
HIGH PARK CLUB
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Service Details
The service for NICHOLSON, John David is scheduled for SATURDAY, OCTOBER 19, 2024, at 2:00 pm (EDT). Below you will find the map for the service location and the contact information should you have any questions.
Address & Contact for Service Location:
HIGH PARK CLUB
100 Indian Rd, Toronto, ON
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Condolences
I am so sorry for your loss. I only knew John briefly, meeting at work in the coffee room one day. He was kind & friendly and I immediately liked him. After that day, in passing we would joke about remembering each others names, both proud of ourselves when we did remember (since so many new staff in the office). Anyway, he was a gem and I am so sad I won’t see his smiling face around the office any more. Please know that he made a positive impression here at Ministry of Forests! Take Care!
I am so terribly sorry for your family’s tragic loss. May he rest in peace.
Ann and Boyd Brooks
John brought a fun atmosphere to the workplace. I only had a chance encounters in the hallways but he always had a smile and positive things to share. His energy was infectious and was always happy to bump into him, sometimes quite literally. Deepest sympathies to family and friends, he will be greatly missed.
John was someone that I did not have in my life for very long, but he left a lasting impact regardless.
I worked with John at BCTS in Vernon. He started his job a little more than a month before me. Right away, John introduced himself to me with a strong handshake and a huge smile. He told me how excited he was that there was another GIS guy for him to talk and work with.
John was someone I considered a friend. We would walk together at breaks, talk about life, work, and interests that we shared. I was blown away to hear he competed in the nationals for Quidditch (quad ball) back in Ontario.
He was always such a bright light and brought me happiness on tough days. He always had something to say that would bring a smile to anyone who crossed his path, whether it was a joke, expressing his love for something, or being fascinated by one of your interests.
Around Christmas, John gave me a 3D printed Bulbasaur after we spoke about our shared interest in Pokemon. Hank (as I named him) has sat on my desk ever since and will remain there in John’s memory. John was a genuine man who cared about others and sought to bring out the best in people. I truly believe that he was one of a kind. He will be greatly missed.
Condolences to you both such a young man it so sad. I can remember going trail riding with him and John they where fun times.
I am so deeply sorry about John’s passing. I know you mentioned his bipolar disorder and even though he accomplished so much in his life we will never understand the struggles in his life. I waa lucky to get to know him as a child then a grown man. I remember him as a very kind happy man who loved his family and friends very much. My deeply condolences for his family and friends
John and Sue I am deeply saddened by this news. My thoughts, condolences, and prayers are with you both.
Hailey – my thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.
My heart breaks for Susan, John, Jennie, Will and Hailey. John David was a bright light that has gone out far too soon. My friendship with Sue and John since 1985 has allowed me the privilege to watch this young man to grow and give so much joy to his family and friends. His love of adventure, the outdoors and his creative outlets was shared and encouraged by the love of his life, Hailey. Always remember that smile and know despite his illness his greatest happiness were the people in his life. Sending love to all.
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your beautiful son. Our hearts are with your family at this time.
John, Sue and Jennifer
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your son John. Although we never had the opportunity to meet him, we were able to capture his essence in the beautifully written tribute. Sending you much love during this difficult time.
So very sorry for the loss of your lovely son. My thoughts are with your family.
I am so sorry to hear this tragic news. John was on the job for only a few days when he came up to me at reception and introduced himself and said… “if there is one thing I know, it’s important to have a good connection to information in this office and you look like you know stuff”! He made me laugh so hard and continued to do that everyday that we ran into each other. John and I had many conversations about many things but a very lengthy one of one of his uncles and what a character he was and I thought, lol, you are this uncle! lol. He sounded just like the man he was describing and clearly this man left a significant mark in his life because he talked about him for a very long time. We shared our love of music. John was often seen walking around the office with a guitar in had and even offered free lessons. I could see John was not without his struggles but I can say, I did not expect this. John left an impression on me. I could see how much he loved life and talked about his girlfriend so lovingly and how awesome and feisty she was. I could see he really loved her. My heart goes out to all who loved him and to all of us that enjoyed his stories, sense of humor, passion for life. I won’t forget this man!
My thoughts are with John’s family and Hailey. I am glad to have known John through quidditch back at Queen’s and his smile lit up the room like nothing else. I am saddened by the news and my thoughts are with you guys.
Dear John, Susan, and Jennifer,
I am incredibly sorry for your loss. I remember John David as a kind and bright light in our community. And yes, I remember his 300 yard drive. My deepest sympathies. All the best to all of you.
Dear John, Susan & family:
My sincere sympathy to you at this heartbreaking time. There are no words to offer that will help ease the pain but you are in my prayers .
-Ruth Collins (Christ First United)
So so sorry to hear of your loss. I remember John David as a small boy at Leslie and Rob’s wedding —cute happy and cheerful. I saw him a few times during his adolescent years and again found him to be happy, polite, and fun. I can’t imagine how difficult this must be for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers. This disease thouches so many lives. Hopefully there will be a drug that can cure this disease soon. Take some joy in the time you had with John David. He was a jewel with light that went out too soon. Love you all. Sandy Davis
Such a devastating illness to live with and such a devastating loss for you all. My prayers for courage are with you on this tortuous journey.
So very sorry to hear of the loss of John. He is an amazing person! We were fast work friends. Many conversations about nothing, and some about everything….. including some struggles which were not to be overshadowed by which 3D ring we liked the best. Hailey, he spoke so highly of you and your future. John and his infectious personality will be greatly missed.
John, Susan and Jennifer – Barb and I are so sorry to learn of the sudden loss of your son, John. From reading the obituary, he was a caring and accomplished young man. There are no words to express how we feel. Know that we will pray for strength and courage as you walk through this very difficult and painful valley. With love and sympathy. Keith and Barb Bowman.
So sorry to hear about your loss. Can’t begin to imagine how difficult it must be to lose a beloved son. Our thoughts are with you.
John and Susan-I am so very sorry to hear about your son John. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Jane Wamsley (Christ United Church)
John, Susan and family. I am deeply saddened to learn of John’s passing. It’s clear he impacted so many, and in wonderful ways! May the positive impact he had in life, bring you comfort as you remember him fondly and celebrate his life. My sincere condolences.
Andrea De Jager-Jackson
(SCN CHRO Peer Forum)
John and Susan: Robert and I send our deepest condolences to you on the devastating loss of your son John David. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad and difficult time. Mary and Robert Pare (Christ First United Church)
John & Susan,
May it comfort you to know that there are many others, like me, who stand with you as you struggle for the stamina and courage to take each step forward..
(Rev.) Bob Johnstone, Christ First UCC, Mississauga.
My thoughts and prayers are with you, Sue and John. May God give you courage and peace to move on.
John, Susan & Family, I know there are no words to ease the agony of such a tragic and profound loss. I remember John from church being such a light-hearted, easy going, super friendly person, always with a big smile on his face. He will live on in the hearts of all those he touched. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Teresa, Christ First UCC
My heart and warmest thoughts are with you as you navigate this difficult time. May your special memories and love fill your heart.
Dear John, Susan, Jennifer and Hailey, I cannot imagine the pain you are suffering with the tragic loss of John David. May it comfort you to know that you are being held in the thoughts and prayers of all those whose lives he touched in his too short life.
There are no words that could possibly help.
Just hoping you can feel the love from all your friends
Jill and Doug
Dear Susan John and family
Please accept my sincere condolences. Your Jonnie was very youg and I am sure this is devastating for you. Please accept a virtual hug from me
Birgith
I am so very sorry for your loss. John was a beam of positivity with an infectious curiosity about any topic brought up to him. I got to know him better when we teamed up to deliver training to northern BCTS offices earlier this year. On our road trip we discussed dozens of topics, many in depth, and his wealth of knowledge and humor quickly shone through. I also quickly found out how diverse and impressive his skills in life were, from athletic ability to creativeness to entrepreneurship. Never one to talk too much about himself, he always made sure the conversation was balanced with thoughtful questions at the right moments. Whenever conversing with John, he was genuinely interested in what was being discussed and in who he was discussing it with. He had a knack for making others immediately feel warm and welcome, even if he was new himself. It was a great pleasure getting to know him. He will be deeply, deeply missed.
I am very sorry for your loss. Having family members with mental illness, specifically bipolar disorder, I empathize with you and your family but can not imagine the sadness you are bearing. Thinking of you and praying for you to find peace.
Take care,
Jeannine
We are so terribly sorry to hear of your heartbreaking and tragic loss. There truly are no sufficient words. I knew John as a friend of my son Macs. He brought joy and laughter everytime we were in his presence. So often his name has come up in conversation despite not seeing him for years. I will remember him as a kind, spirited young man who brought joy and laughter to those around him. So very very sorry.
John Susan and Jenny: We are so sorry to hear of your loss of your beloved son John. Sending you love and any possible comfort that you can find from memories as time goes on. A beautiful bright soul gone too soon.
Karen Matthews and Kent Hoffman (Christ First)
My heartfelt sympathy for your loss. I did not know your son but feel with you in this difficult time. May God give you peace. Your son must have been a very special person.
John and Susan, I am so sorry for your loss. John was a bright young man with so much potential and he left a big impact on all of us. With his departure, silence, disbelief and sadness took place. Comprehending this is not easy for anyone, and especially for you. I hope that over time memories of young, laud, big smile teddy bear John will provide some comfort to you and everyone else who knew John.
Dear John and Susan, I am so sorry for you loss. I have know John since high-school and every time we met it was like nothing had changed. John never failed to make me laugh. He was one of kind and I miss him deeply.
Sending you love and strength,
Mac
I am very sorry for your loss. As John’s teacher, I remember him as smart, fun-loving and a deep thinker. His bright smile lit up the classroom and his whit was beyond his years.
Dear John , Susan, Jenny, Will and Hailey. So very sorry to hear this sad news. you are all in our thoughts . Your loving tribute to Johnnie was so nice. Thinking about you. Jean and Jim Riffel.
Sue, John and Jennifer our memories of John David from Venom days was a happy, kind, friendly andathletic young boy. We are very sadden by this
news.
Dear Susan, John and Jennifer, we are sending you our deepest condolences. We were so saddened to hear about the passing of John David. He was a kind, sweet young man and will be remembered fondly playing basketball with Nicholas on the Venom Boys basketball teams. We will keep your family in our prayers.