We Remember
SODARO, Anthony “Capper”
October 1, 1944 — June 17, 2022
Anthony “Capper” Sodaro passed away unexpectedly in Kelowna, BC, on June 17, 2022, at the age of 77.
Capper is survived by his sons Tony and Mike; his two daughters-in-law Bridget and Kim; grandchildren Mason, Walker, Dominic, Knox, and Hugo; and many extended family members and friends. He was predeceased by his parents, Natale and Concetta; and his siblings Paul and Jenny.
Born in Italy, Capper immigrated to Canada with his family at a young age. He joined the Navy at age 17 in order to support his two younger siblings, who were supported and raised by the wonderful extended family that Capper had in Toronto, ON. Capper enjoyed a number of careers after his service with the Navy, as a butcher, and pizza place owner/operator, and then dedicated many years working in customer service and management at various airlines in Canada. He will always be remembered as “Coach” to so many people in our world, and to many young people, Capper was a “second father”. Capper was the first coach for both Tony and Mike in almost every sport they played growing up, and he never stopped supporting his two sons and all of his grandsons in all of their many sporting endeavours.
Capper loved fishing trips, travelling, bowling and visiting with family and friends. In his later years, he could be found at Perc’s coffee house, having a coffee and a smoke in his own chair, while holding “session”.
He will be deeply missed by his family and everyone who knew him.
A Celebration of Life will be held on TUESDAY, JULY 5, 2022, FROM 1:00 PM – 4:00 PM, at THE OKANAGAN MISSION ACTIVITY CENTRE, 4398 Hobson Rd, Kelowna, BC.
If you wish to send a condolence, post photos, or share a memory, please scroll down the page to the area called “Condolences”.
Service
TUESDAY, JULY 5, 2022, FROM 1:00 PM - 4:00 PM
Location
THE OKANAGAN MISSION ACTIVITY CENTRE
Many, many memories of Caper. I lived with he and Maggie, Jenny and the boys twice in my teens. He always gave me good advice as a young girl just out of school, and gave me many opportunities to learn and grow.. very much will be missed. Always a housekeeping of teenagers at the house and always a game happening!! Much love sent to the boys and their children. They were very lucky to have him in their lives. Much love to Maggie also.
My Condolences to the Sodaro Family,
My heart aches for you all. Hearing about Capper’s passing struck me deeply. Capper was like a second father to me for many years. I spent many of days and nights sitting with Capper as he would coach me how to play a smarter crib hand or how to play better defence in volleyball. I loved how involved he was with everything we did. It seemed like he was at all the sporting events and/or social gatherings.
He wasn’t one to keep his mouth shut, he always had something to say whether you were ready for it or not. I appreciated this trait of his, he taught me a lot.
There were a few years where I spent so much time at the Sodaro’s that Capper gave me the nick name, ‘Neighbour’s Kid’. He always welcomed me in, never did he ever make me feel unwelcome. He was that way with everyone. I have so many amazing memories of him that I will hold in my heart forever. You are missed Capper, by so many. You left a strong legacy behind.
Thank you for loving me unconditionally and making me feel like one of the family. I hold a special place in my heart for you.
Love Derek Strachan ‘Neighbor’s Kid’
Tony and Mike, on behalf of Anna and Giuseppe Lorusso and the entire family, we are so very sorry for your loss. It was a terrible shock to hear of his passing. We expected to see him soon for one of his usual visits. Your dad and my mom were cousins and we have so many fond memories of his frequent trips to Toronto to visit with his cousins. He was one of a kind and will forever be in our hearts. Rest In Peace.
As a kid in junior high and high school my family and the Sodaro family spent lots of time together as my dad, Frank, and Mr. Sodaro were good friends. They teamed up to coach many soccer teams and I have great memories of piling into the Sodaro red van heading to games and the booming voice of Mr. Sodaro to give me direction. I also remember gathering at their place for games of rumoli, pool parties and fishing trips. Fun times for sure. Rest in peace.
Dear Michael & Anthony, on behalf of your cousins Arcangelo & Bettina Loberto and family, please accept our sincerest condolences on the loss of your dad. Tony meant a lot to us, and we really enjoyed his visits to Toronto, especially when he came to learn how to make Italian sausages, just like our parents used to make in Calabria. It was so wonderful to see that Tony appreciated this tradition and enjoyed spending time with us. We are heartbroken over his loss and we want you to know that he will forever be in our hearts💕
Dear Anthony and Michael, we’re so sorry to hear of the loss of your dad. Please accept our sincerest sympathies at this very difficult time. Tony was definitely one of a kind and we will always remember him for sense of humor and quick wit. Growing up, I vividly remember him always referring to me as “trouble” no matter what the occasion. On one of his last visits to Toronto, it was great to see him interact with my kids and tell them all about the great fishing out in BC. He really got them hooked and they remember his stories of the “big one that got away”.
Please know that we will always remember Tony and cherish the time we spent together. May he Rest In Peace.
With love,
Your cousin,
Beatrice Povolo (Loberto)
I wish I had the chance to spend more time with my Uncle. Living across the sea is hard…we meet up with family maybe once every 10 years and we try to cram everything in to a 2 or 3 week holiday. I loved how laid back Capper was about everything. He was an amazing ‘coach’, an amazing cook (i have some of his recipes scribbled on paper from one visit and they are dear to me) Capper always told it how it was…whether you wanted to hear it or not! I loved this about him. I remember sitting in restaurants with him and praying that the food was going to be good otherwise that waitress would sure know about it haha…fabulous, ruthless honestly. On my last visit we spent some precious time together and I remember when I came home how his presence had really imprinted on me…I missed being around him and my amazing Sodaro family 💜 I was looking forward to being able to see him again and feel heartbroken that this can’t happen. So, to my two wonderful and very dearly missed cousins. Know that I am thinking of you every day. Know that your dad was indeed totally loved by all and know that he will always be there to guide you, you will always hear his voice in everything you do and he will remain part of you and you both are part of him 💙 Love to you all. Sweet Dream Uncle Capper, hugs xxx
Anthony and Michael. Sorry to hear about your dad. I was proud to call Tony my friend. We shared good times coaching our kids in soccer Enjoyed fishing trips and all other stuff. It was a treat seeing him on my trip to Kelowna. Again my condolences.Your friend Tom.
To Anthony,Michael and the Sodaro families We are thinking of you and a flood of happy memories are brought to mind. Un forte abbraccio a voi tutti da noi tutti.Tom,Mary ,Tommy,Robbie,Dina.
Tony and Mike, my brothers. One of the boys, one of a kind, The Patriarch. We have lost a Legend but I know that all of us will remember fondly all of the time we spent with him. Personally I will remember countless hours of playing crib and drinking beer with him while he pontificated on everything under the sun, and I will never forget the trip you made with him to Germany and those precious times we had together. I will also remember how much he just loved people, and how much people loved him. His charm was infectious and he made everyone smile. Lastly I will never forget how much he loved you both – you were his champions – and then how much he loved your families. It was beautiful to see. I know he was so proud of you both and will be looking down on you from somewhere with all the love in the world. Sending you all so much love from me and my family. Adrian (and Miriam, Finley and Osian)
For our dear friends the Sodaros, Shelley and I send our deepest sympathies. And for all of the people touched by Tony’s kindness and friendship we share your grief. We have wonderful memories of Tony and thinking of him makes us smile. We love you all and we look forward to sharing with you our stories and our memories.
With Love,
Phil and Shelley
My condolences Mike and Tony. I have great memories of Capone and the time we spent together as young men finding our ways in life. He was always there for us he will be missed. Teresa still tells stories of him to this day!
Wayne and Teresa Duquesne