We Remember
STEPPUHN, Alfred
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Alfred was born in Korschen, Kreis Rastenburg, Ostpreussen. He was the youngest child of Maria and Paul Steppuhn and had four siblings: Irmgard, Siegfried, Bruno and Hans. He studied to become a Brick Layer and decided to immigrate to Canada at the age of 19 in 1958. He met and fell in love with Annie Dihanits at a dance in Vernon. They were later married on November 19, 1960. Alfred and Annie had three children (Angela, Jacqueline, and Mathias) and raised them on the farm, initially on Hollywood Road then in East Kelowna. He was a father-in-law to Frank, Melanie, and Dave. Grandpa to Frank Jr (Natsuko), Adam, Maxwell and Milan.
Dad loved farming and learned a lot from his father-in-law Mathias Dihanits. Farming became his life’s passion. His schooling and talent in bricklaying also gave him many jobs in Kelowna’s construction industry. With the support of the East Kelowna community, Dad became a British Columbia Fruit Growers association delegate for the South East Kelowna area. This gave him a platform to voice his concerns for the plight of the farmers who continue to struggle to make a living. He also was a Knights of Columbus member and admired the organization for their efforts within the community. His number one hobby was a German card game called Skat. This strategic game which has some similarity to Bridge is played all over the world. It was with Skat that Dad traveled to many destinations with Mom to play in tournaments. The most memorable being his first place win for the day at a world Skat tournament in Torremolinos, Spain.
Dad loved to visit, and receive visits from, family and friends in Canada, Europe, United States, Mexico, and Guatemala. Even with thousands of kilometres between and a time difference, it was important to him to keep in touch. Dad was funny, kind, compassionate, loving, generous, and a hard worker. Where-ever he went he made friends and welcomed them all to their home. Dad loved his family, friends and appreciated them so much. His love was reflected by his generosity of himself to others and his community. No matter how dark the current day was he was optimistic and gave light to the days ahead with his friendship, humor and work. Dad’s and Mom’s door was always open with coffee, cake, food and drink at the ready. He lived a rich and full life. Dad we all miss you and love you dearly. We are comforted knowing that one day we will see you again in heaven. The Family wants to thank Dr. Parson’s, the staff at Kelowna General Hospital, and at Chatsworth Retirement community for giving Dad such good care.
So sorry to hear to hear of the passing of Alfred. Although I had not see him for a few years I thought of him often with very fond memories. I remember when I was looking for a car for my son and he told me he had the perfect car for him… his yellow Mercedes. The car was loved and enjoyed for many years by my son. Alfred was such a gentle soul and I was proud to know him as a friend.
Our condolences on the passing of Mr. Alfred Steppuhn . Alfred was instrumental in building our family home on Hollywood Road in 1964/65. I didn’t realize how young he was at the time which would explain why he and Dad would get into ‘discussions’ about construction issues! I think they were both perfectionists but from a different culture and era.
May they rest in peace.
Please accept our most sincere sympathy and condolences at the passing of your father. I remember your father very well prior to leaving B.C. in 1964 when my parents lived at 820 Hollywood Road. In fact your Dad helped my Dad build our house. When your Dad built your home on Hollywood Road across the road from the Dihanits’. I wheelbarrowed the cement for the foundation of his house. In this one day of work, I made enough to buy myself a new ball glove! My Dad was also helping your Dad build your new home. Also Mrs. Dihanits used to feed me desserts and drinks on visits I periodically made to their home. All pleasant memories of wonderful, hard working neighbours. May Alfred rest in peace and you have many memories to keep his spirit alive!
Sincerely, Ken and Gloria Hokazono, Delta, B.C.
The video is such a beautiful tribute to Alfred. He would be so pleased and proud. As we watched it our thoughts were with you all today as you celebrate his life. We wish we could have been there. Hugs & love to you all Judy (nee Malen) & Ken Miletto
We are sending our deepest condolences to the entire Steppuhn Family. You are all such wonderful people and our thoughts are with you at this very difficult time. From, Angela & Edith Kempf and Family
We were so saddened by the news of the passing of your dad. He was so friendly and welcoming. Doug especially remembers his many fun summers at the orchard. May you be comforted during this time, Our love, thoughts and prayers are with you. Doug & Ardell Seefried
Our deepest condolences to Mrs. Steppuhn, Angela, Jackie and Matt, and your families. You did a wonderful job describing what a wonderful person your Dad was in your Tribute. One of my favourite memories of Mr. Steppuhn is from our wedding. He and Mrs. Steppuhn were at a table with a group of my parents’ good friends from Edmonton and that table was the life of the party. At the open house the next day, everyone spent a lot of time lamenting the fact the party shut down so early (2:00 am) because they wanted to party with him all night. It’s so unfortunate everyone couldn’t be with you in person to celebrate his life, but please know our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Es tut mir sehr leid das Alfred gestorben ist. Erst heute habe ich mit meiner Frau über Alfted gesprochen und das ich mich immer wieder gerne an die Familienfeiern in Köln gerne zurück erinnere. Wir haben dann im Netz nach Alfred gesucht und sind durch Zufall dann auf diese Seite gestoßen. Das Video ist einfach wunderbar. Möge Alfred in Frieden ruhen. Alles liebe an die Familie und liebe Grüße aus Köln Jörg und Barbara Schnorrenberg