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Pamela passed away suddenly after a prolonged illness on Sunday, September 8, 2019 at the age of 70. She is survived by her loving husband of 33 years, Graham, and their son, Michael of Vancouver. She also leaves behind her sisters June Messmer (Gavin) and Carol (George) Budd; her brother Tom (Germaine) Cochran; numerous nieces, nephews, and cousins; and her dearest friend Josée Glass. She was predeceased by her parents Jack and Bette Cochran.

A Time of Visitation will be held on Thursday, September 12, 2019 from 7:00 – 8:00 pm at Springfield Funeral Home. A Funeral Service will be held on Friday, September 13, 2019 at 10:00 am in the chapel of Springfield Funeral Home, 2020 Springfield Road, Kelowna, BC, with George Best officiating. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Respiratory Department at the Kelowna General Hospital, www.kghfoundation.com, or buy a piece of art from a budding artist; they make the world beautiful, just like Pam. If you wish to send a condolence, post photos or share a memory, please scroll down the page to the area called “Condolences”.



Thursday, September 12, 2019 from 7:00 – 8:00 pm
Springfield Funeral Home
(2020 Springfield Road, Kelowna, BC )

Friday, September 13, 2019 at 10:00 am

Springfield Funeral Home

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Respiratory Department at the Kelowna General Hospital, or buy a piece of art from a budding artist; they make the world beautiful, just like Pam. Link: www.kghfoundation.com


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Service Details

The service for STEVENS, Pamela is scheduled for Friday, September 13, 2019 at 10:00 am . Below you will find the map for the service location and the contact information should you have any questions.

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Springfield Funeral Home

2020 Springfield Road Kelowna, BC


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  • Robert & Barbara Moore says:

    Our sincerest condolences. Pam had a long struggle but now she is at peace.

  • George & Joyce Sherwood says:

    We are very sorry to hear of Pam’s passing. She fought a good fight & is now at peace. Our thoughts & prayers are with you at this most difficult time.

  • Rick & Mary Walker says:

    She was a fighter Graham. Our deepest sympathy, You are in our thoughts and prayers over these next few days..
    Rick & Mary

  • Carol Wardrop says:

    Dear Graham and family, we are saddened to hear of Pam’s passing. Our condolences to you and your family.
    Sincerely Carol

  • Sandy & Boyd & Charli says:

    Our heartfelt condolences to you (Graham) and Michael and to the extended family.
    I met Pam an evening in early Spring in 1991 at the Kelowna Calligraphy Guild meeting as she signalled me out and said “we’re going to be friends” and there and then began the start of a amazing friendship. I will always love our time in her studio pouring over the latest and greatest art ‘gadgets’ and techniques and sharing, laughing and having the best time together. I will miss sharing our art supplies and most of all laughing together. We won’t be able to make the services but please know that both of us (and Charli) will be there with our love. We will be purchasing art in Pam’s name as well.

  • Jannett Bennett says:

    Pam was a remarkable woman. She had a gift for making people comfortable. She was warm and welcoming. She was also incredibly resilient and strong. We will always be grateful that we knew Pam, and you Graham, during our sun and fun filled Tucson winters. It just won’t be the same without her.

  • Lisa Ann Butcher says:

    I am so sorry to learn of Pam’s passing. I am an RT at the hospital who enjoyed caring for and speaking with Pam for a long time. I used to show her videos of my kids and she would tell me stories. What a strong woman. If she is remembered as anything, it should be as a warrior and a survivor. God bless.

    • Graham Stevens says:

      Hi Lisa Ann.
      I’m Graham Stevens, Pam’s husband. Somehow, I missed your message last fall on her memorial page. I caught it tonight, January 20, while looking for the link to the funeral-webcast to send to a friend.
      Thank you so much for your condolence. By the time I finished reading it, I realized this wasn’t a case of me missing something but of finding it exactly when I needed it. You caught the very core and soul of the most wonderful woman I could ever have married.
      Pam spent over 57 years handling pain few people can even imagine. Yet, she never lost the smile, strength and incredible optimism that flew from her eyes and arms to those she held dear, whether new acquaintance or lifelong friend. Your message reminded me once again how fortunate I am to have shared life and love with Pam for over a third of a century.
      Graham Stevens
      KGH RT’S ROCK!!!!

  • Matthew Stevens says:

    My deepest condolences Uncle Graham, I just watched this very nice service.

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