We Remember
STILES, Edgar Patrick “Pat”
February 23, 1934 — January 31, 2020
It is with great sadness that we announce the death of our beloved husband/dad/grampa on Jan. 31, 2020. Pat Stiles is survived by his wife of 61 years, Cathy; his four children Pat (Penny), Leah Cuthbert (Bob), Jim (Pao) and Megan (Philip); and his three Cuthbert grandchildren, Andrew (Shannon), Caitlin (Stan) and Meghan (Daniel).
Born and raised in Viking, AB, Pat graduated from high school at Alberta College in Edmonton and attended the University of Alberta, graduating in Pharmacy in 1956. On Valentine’s Day, 1959, Pat married his forever love, Cathy, in Edmonton, AB. Pat and Cathy started their lives together in St. Albert, AB until moving to Westlock, AB in the mid-60s. In 1972, they moved their family to Kelowna, BC to enjoy the warmer climate and many activities the community offered. In 1976, Pat purchased Dyck’s Pharmacists, which he co-owned and operated until 1996, when he retired. Pat’s passions included caring for his family, his many dogs & cats, playing golf (which he both loved and despised with equal passion!), curling, skiing, and his backyard, where he loved to tell lies and share guffaws with friends and family over a beer or two.
Our hearts are saddened by his passing; however, we are forever grateful for his many gifts to us, including his wry and witty sense of humour, his keen interest in history and current events, his belief in fairness and fair play, his affinity for wordplay, his athleticism and finally, his unwavering kindness, compassion and integrity. How lucky we all are to be blessed by a man whose first and lasting commitment was to his family. Whether it was staying up late to help us cram for exams, early morning wake ups and after-school rides so we didn’t miss band rehearsals, sports practices or competitions, or weekends at the ski hill, he was always there with us, and for us. He will live forever in our hearts and minds.
In lieu of flowers, please donate to the charity of your choice in honour of Pat’s memory.
Family and friends will come together to remember and celebrate Pat on Wednesday, March 4, 2020 at 2:00 pm at the Kelowna Golf & Country Club on 1297 Glenmore Drive. If you wish to send condolences, post photos or share a memory, please scroll down the page to the area called “Condolences”.
Service
Wednesday, March 4, 2020 at 2:00 pm
Location
Kelowna Golf & Country Club
To all of the Stiles family,
I have very fond memories of crashing at the Kelowna pad during my university years when I hung out with Meg in the summers. Many laughs (and beers) were shared. He will be missed. Much love to all of you.
Jen
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Dear Cathy and family.
My sincerest condolences. Thank you for the memories of so many wonderful memories of Pat and family.
Hi Cathy, We were so sorry to hear of Pat’s passing. We have so many fond memories of you both especially with Morag and Leah being such friends. Please accept our most sincere condolences.
Margaret and Alan
My deepest sympathy to a man I greatly admired!!
Allan Fabbi , Kelowna ( former owner Summerland Pharmacy.
Cathy and family – I met Pat in the summer of 52, at Red Deer Comp High where we were catching up courses before entering Uof A . Pat , Jim Holmes and I became good friends and had many great times together. I also have the fondest memories of Pats’ family who had us out for weekends on several occasions.
I was Pats’ 1st passenger when he got his flying licence – it was an exciting ride.
I will always remember him as one of my finest friends.
Deepest Condolences from Peggy and Myself
Cathy & Family sending hugs & sympathies to you all. RIP dear cousin Pat. xoxoxo💓
From being the ring boy at Pats wedding, to this day, I still relish memories of Pat thru the years. A firm yet fun loving demeanor, with a super family and lovely wife Cathy. A real champ.
To Cathy and family,
I have many fond memories of spending time at the Styles house plus working at Dyck’s after school, Saturdays and during the summer. Pat was a great first boss and family friend. My thoughts and prayers goes out to you all.
Wendy
Dear Cathy & Family,
My sincerest condolences to you all. I am forever grateful to you for your kindness and thoughtfulness when I worked for you at Dyck’s Pharmacists. I felt you cared for me as one of your own children. I loved your family. Thank you for the opportunity you gave me professionally. Thank you for being the kind and caring parenting model I desperately needed.
Forever grateful,
Karen (Mori) Mason