We Remember
THEESSEN, Charles Joseph “Chuck”
March 26, 1949 — December 20, 2021
It is with much regret that the family of Chuck Theessen announce his peaceful passing in the early morning hours of December 20, 2021. Chuck had lived at Pine Acres Home in West Kelowna, BC from January 2016 until this past November when he was transferred to The Village at Mill Creek in Kelowna, BC due to the imminent closure of Pine Acres. His last days were spent with family and close friends sitting by his bedside sharing “Chuck’ stories.
Chuck grew up on the family farm in Greendale in the Fraser Valley, the fourth of six children born to Martin and Elsie Theessen. At age 16, he started working alongside his dad in the remote, water access only, logging camps of Jervis Inlet, learning the camp catering business, eventually ending up in Fort Nelson, then the logging and mill camps of Upper Fraser, McGregor and Giscome east of Prince George. For a number of years in his late 20s, he managed all National Caterer’s B.C.R. work camps north of Pemberton and remembered his days riding the rails as some of his favourite. In 1978, he incorporated Central Interior Catering and Consulting, offering remote site catering to the logging, mining and road building companies of the north, a company still in operation today.
It was in the early 1980s, that Chuck’s fascination with all things Eastern really took hold after he hired a Vietnamese boat refugee, a man who become his Kung Fu Master. Chuck went on to eventually teach Shaolin Temple Kung Fu in Prince George before switching disciplines to Tai Chi Chuan. He was also adept in the practice of yoga. And it was during the call and response of the ancient Pali and Sanskrit chants that it was discovered that he had a rich and deep baritone voice.
His love of all things Eastern led to countless trips to Asia, especially the Southeast Asia countries of Laos, Cambodia, Thailand and Myanmar. It was in Myanmar in 1996, that Chuck had a near-death experience, which he later described as wondrous and filled with limitless love, and which gave him the knowledge that death is nothing to be feared.
His greatest passion came with the discovery of Touch For Health and Bowen Therapy in the late 1980s and early 90s, when he uncovered a natural aptitude for assisting people in regaining a more balanced state of health. He never asked for payment, only a letter of thanks if a natural healing response resulted. He had a box full of such letters. To this day, every single person in our family misses his magic hands.
In 1999 both girls were living in Kelowna, so it was decided the time was right to relocate. Within a few years, the grandchildren started arriving, reinforcing that the decision to move south was the right thing to do. Chuck doted on his five grandchildren and had all the time in the world for each of them until his illness took over.
Chuck was predeceased by his father, Martin, and mother, Elsie; sister Becky; nephew Paul; and great niece Shelby. He is survived by his wife of 50 years, Sheryl; daughter Melanie and her children Julius, Mariah and Presley and their father, Riley Kerner; daughter Leah (Jason) and her girls Eva and Martina and their father, Cal Benazic; brothers Bill (Sylvia) and Ed (Grace) in Prince George, Dave (Linda) in Victoria and sister, Rosie, in Oklahoma; plus numerous nieces and nephews.
Many thanks to his great pal, Roger Lake, for being such a good and true friend through every stage of Chuck’s decline. Also, thanks to the wonderful staff at Pine Acres for the years of loving care provided to Chuck and to the staff of the Oyama Unit at Mill Creek for their professionalism in easing his end of life transition.
Due to the current highway conditions in BC, and the Covid-19 restrictions in place, there will be no service at this time.
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Sheryl and family, I was greatly saddened by the news of Chuck’s passing. I have many memories of ridng the rails in BC with Chuck as we visited the BC Rail camps which he managed so well. I have fond memories of the times our families were able to spend together in Prince George, Kelowna & Mazatlan. My fondest by far was March 18, 1977 at Prince George Regional Hospital. As I walked up to the pay phones on the maternity ward, there was Chuck. Our eyes met and simultaneously we said “What are you doing here?”. “I’m a new father”, “well so am I”.. Sheryl had just given birth to Leah and Madeleine to our son Greg, will never forget that moment and the smiles.
Sincere condolences from the Sangsters Rick, Jason Greg, Michelle and all our families.
Nice to hear from you, Rick. I imagine you are enjoying the warm weather of Mexico as opposed to the very cold winter the
West is having. I am in Edmonton next week and am hoping for a moderation in temperatures before I arrive. Take care and all the best for 2022.
We are saddened to hear of Chucks passing but realize that his next life will be filled with peace. Chuck had a great sense of style. His choice of a music in a disc he made for me is still one of my go to for great listening. Loved the parties, lots of good times. We shall remember Chuck and the love he shared with his family. Rest In Peace and love.
Thank you for yours words of condolence. I am now at the point where I am happy for Chuck – that it is all now over for him. Take care and all the best for 2022.
Dear Sheryl, Melanie, Leah, and extended family ~ We are filled with sadness, and admiration, for a man whom we knew as a neighbour, Sheryl’s husband, and Melanie & Leah’s dad. What shines through this beautiful tribute to Chuck is the way in which he not only worked hard to build a legacy for his family, but also remained curious and walked the path to follow his passions. His was truly a life well lived. You have been a model for all of us in your tenacity, strength, unwavering commitment and enduring love as you witnessed this wonderful man fade away from you ever-so-slowly. It’s been a long and challenging. journey for you all. Time for a rest.
Very sorry to hear of Chucks passing. When we are born we begin the journey. When it comes to the end none of us know. All we can do is do our best. Chuck had a full life. Full of family and friends what else can we hope for. He’s where we all will be so enough.
Jack and I send you our sympathy at this sad time. You have travelled a long road with Chuck and you will have very mixed feelings. You will all have wonderful memories that pop up and keep you going. Susan and Jack Schultz
Thank you so much for your condolences. It was terribly hard to witness, Chuck’s end, but I am happy he is now released from the life his illness forced him to live, and for such a long time. Happy New Year and all the best to you and your family for 2022.
Melanie, Sheryl and Leah – I am so sorry for your loss. I have such fond memories of Chuck – specifically when we’d come home from school for lunch. He was always so chill and welcomed us – often the four of us as we raided the fridge. He will be missed and remembered fondly. Sending love to all of you, Kim
Thank you so much, Brian. Chuck always remembered your mom and dad with great fondness and my girls still have memories of your parent’s house on Burden St, And the orange Duster was truly an awesome car!
Hi, Kim, I mistakenly sent you an email meant for the person below you on the Condolence page, sorry for that. So nice to hear from you and thank you for your message to us. It was a tough go for all of us but now I am happy for Chuck, that he has been released from the awful disease that took him away from us all. Love and Best Wishes to you and your family for 2022.
Rest in peace Chuck you were a good my family friend to my parents. We worked together at giscome camp you would come and pick me up in your 1969 orange duster and we would get out to camp there real fast to start work . Some great memories . My condolences to the family
Thank you for your words of condolence. Chuck always remembered your mom and dad with fondness and our girls remember the times they visited them on Burden St. And that Duster was some awesome car! Take care and all the best for 2022.
Sheryl, Melanie, Nicole and family – thank you for the opportunity to be part of your family and especially to have Chuck be a part of my life like a ‘big brother’. I shall cherish the many memories of him with his beautiful, loving family and you will always have a very special place in my heart.
Love and blessings
Maria
Correction – Sheryl, Melanie, Leah and family
Thank you so much, Maria. The entire family is glad that Chuck got to spend the majority of his time in residence at Pine Acres, where he was so lovingly cared for. All the best for 2022.
Sheryl, Melanie, Leah, and family,
I was so sorry and saddened to learn of Chuck’s illness and his passing. If it wasn’t for Chuck’s interest and leadership in the Prince George martial arts community, I would never have had the good luck to meet him and become his training partner. Over the years and during the hundreds of hours we spent training and practicing together, I came to know Chuck as a man of integrity, generosity, and kindness with a deep love for his family.
Chuck’s business and personal involvement within the community was beneficial, enduring, and will be remembered by all who knew him.
With deepest sympathy,
Bruce
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So nice to hear from you, Bruce. And I am sure that the fact Chuck lived as long as he did after diagnosis (almost 12 years) can be contributed in great part to the strength he gained through his years of martial arts as there was not a thing wrong with him physically. I looked through some of his contacts and saw names like Betty, Sana, Bobby K, and Leslie, all favourite Tai Chi players of his. And you, of course. Take care and all the best for 2022.
Dear Sheryl, Melanie, Leah and extended family, we were so saddened to hear of Chuck’s long illness and his passing. While time has past since we connected in Prince George, we always remember Chuck’s abundant enthusiasm, energy and passion for life. He achieved many impressive goals but the beautiful family he was part of creating speaks to his human quality. With deep sympathy, and hope that a lifetime of amazing precious memories will ease this difficult time, Karen & John Hong
A welcome surprise to hear from you and thank you for this. I am happy for him that he is gone, end stage Alzheimer’s is not a good place for anyone to find themselves in. It is an ugly, ugly disease. I hope all is well with you and your family. Take care and all the best for 2022.
My condolences to the family. He was a great person did many good things for many people And will be Missed by all. No one had the healing touch like he did. I had the opportunity to work with him for many years at CICC. He was always open to share his knowledge And experience with me . He helped make me the person I am today. I know that he has gone to a better place I will cherish the memories That I have of the All thegood times We had together
Thanks, Ed.
My condolences to Sheryl and Family,
Chuck was a rare individual who touch many lives.
He was certainly a huge inspiration and Mentor to me. You will be sorely Missed my Tai Chi Brother. ❤️🙏
Why, hello. I was hoping you would hear the news as I was not sure the phone number I have for you would still be working. I am happy for Chuck that he has now been released from how he was forced to live, especially at the end. Not something I would wish on anyone. Take care and all the best for 2022.
Dear Sheryl & Family
So sad to hear of Chuck’s passing.. It was a joy to have known him even for these last few difficult years at PA. He always made us smile & was ever patient. Thank you for sharing his beautiful life with us. Now when I practice tai chi, he will be in my thoughts. Peace and Love to you and your family.
Sheryl,
We were sorry to read about Chuck’s passing in The Citizen. You and Chuck were both instrumental in my husband and my life – you as my first yoga teacher and Chuck as our Tai Chi instructor. Twenty-five or more years later, those two practices are still very central to our lives. Thank you both.
Maggee Spicer and Richard Thompson
Thank you for your message. I am at the stage now where I am happy for Chuck – that he is no longer living in such a compromised state. End stage Alzheimer’s Disease is something I would not wish on anyone. Take care and all the best for 2022.